Hey so all the girls I have met so far are, in my opinion, still in their "high school phase" and I just am not into freshmen women.

With that in mind, is it a good train of thought to believe that I will be able to find a fuck buddy, or friends with benefits that bekieves in sex as basically something fun 2 people can do?

I like women, but I am not a fan of what is out there right now. I am going to keep looking for people, but is my thinking right or am I setting too high expectations?

it depends on who you are and what your skillsets are

do you talk to women on a regular basis, have you had sex with any new girls this year?

^ this will most likely highly effect the answer to your question

ahh at first I posted a bullshit response that ya im a playa and its all good and that shit, but then I realized there is no point in doing that and that I am only doing that to cover up my ego and insecurities.

I have never had sex before, but I have always talked to women on a regular basis. I have a very introspective personality and don't show my emotions too easily. However, that does not mean I am anti-social at all. I enjoy talking to strangers and I try to abide by the rule "Leave her better than you found her" and in general, brightening people's days up just for the fuck of doing something good for the day

I also find myself in a very interesting predicament for my freshman year at college. I ended up making friends with a lot more sophomores than I did freshman so far, but I still do have a lot of freshman friends and people that I am friendly with. I also find it very intriguing that people from the football team are very nice to me. One guy goes out of his way to literally helping me to meet more people by being like yo you know my boy here? *me* and bam I am talking to some freshman woman. I don't really like these kind of things though because I feel like I don't have any connection with the women I meet whatsoever. Even when I just try to be friendly and find out more about her, her responses are pretty cold and the conversation is one sided.

With that in mind , what would you say I am doing wrong? Or lack of doing anything in general am I being too picky? Or Do i need to approach this a different way and treat this more immaturely like I am in high school still? Or just give it time for people to get used to being in college and opening up

awesome, you got it better then some guys who are starting out, this is a good foundation to build upon
have you ever tried meditation before?
what is pushing your comfort zone right now?, would you feel ok telling a girl she is cute? hey don't worry about this, sometimes it's just like that, keep your cool and try to bring some fun to the conversations and give them a chance to warm up to you, later on if they are not interested you will have made some female friends who can help you meet even more women, and you will be met by a warmer approach, the fact you are networking at school is good, keep meeting people and expanding your social opportunities
you're not really doing anything wrong in my opinion, you just have alot of room to grow and challenge yourself, so far you're doing good, figure out what it is around women that scares you, and challenge that fear, what ever it is, approaching one you don't know, maybe it's telling a girl you find her attractive, maybe it's asking her out to do something, getting her phone number, maybe it's going for a kiss, or touching, maybe it's getting naked for the first time, maybe it's the actual act of sex it's self, just break down your barriers one by one, work on it, go out with the intentions to really challenge yourself to do something that scares you that you haven't done before

also, picky, that is sort of a person choice, how ever be aware if you ego is getting in the way and just making excuses, there is a difference between not liking a girl cause she isn't your type, and dismissing a girl because you are scared to make yourself vulnerable and it's just your brains rationalization to not face your fears, some guys do this all the time, see a hot girl... oh not her, she looked like she was a bitch, next girl rolls along, she's cute... ohh not her, she looked too immature, next girl rolls along, another hottie... ohh not her, probably too high maintenance, just make sure you are actually giving girls a real chance and be patient with them, they can be testy at times

how you approach is dependent on who you are, and chances are you haven't exactly formed a strong identity for yourself yet, do you even know what direction you want your life to go in, or have an idea of what you are trying to find in a girl? (both looks and personality wise?)

just starting to meet more women and interact with them is a good start, and on campus the more friends you make the better, be open to socializing

I asked a woman straight out after knowing her for 5 mins to have sex with me. Unfortunately she has a boyfriend but we had a very intelligent conversation over lunch (smartest and most mature that i met + hot little body perfect 10 for me)

Your post was very re assuring. It pretty much summed up what I have been doing this whole time and that Im going in the right direction.