Got a date with an HB9.5, but possible LJBF



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 01, 2012 7:52 am 
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HB9.5 model, asked her out, as was getting some IOI's.
Text her - "You know, you aren't that bad looking, have a nice day.
No response.
Though bugger it I'll try someone else
5 days later - twitter post - "If you really wanted it that badly, you wouldn't stop trying #alltalknoactions
Wrote status the next morning, - Sometimes all a guy needs is encouragement (beta i know, but im new at this) and then #nevergonnagiveyouup - we laughed before about rickrolling
Since then and before the text debacle, we spoke on facebook, but I was a bit beta tbh, though we had a good laugh and she definitely knows Im interested.
We now speak a bit each day, but I duno what to say?
But still think im being too beta, and a bit of a noob at all this.
We're meant to be going out to dinner and cinema in 2 weeks, when we both get back to uni.
Now I generally haven't had problems with the ladies in the past, and only recently wanted to try my skills as a PUA. Unfortunately, my instincts tell me this is on the edge of LJBF, what can I do when I wont see her for two weeks?
Any advice would be much appreciated.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 01, 2012 8:00 am 
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Try not to be needy. Maybe just send funny texts 1-2 times before your date to remind her you exist. Do not keep texting/chatting frequently. It will kill the attraction.
When the big date comes, be natural. Try not to neg her very often if this is your first date. Best of luck dude!


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2 weeks? I'd be worried about flaking more than anything. When you see her amp up the kino and run your regular routines. Though I would never recommend movie/dinner for a first date.

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Why thankyou goodsir, I forgot to include that I also asked her to the freshers ball (Professor Green is playing, I know she likes his stuff) and she agreed. She also works at that same bar the Monday - Thursday before. I will be there every night with my mates cos its freshers, how can I use this to my advantage?
Problem is Sylar, that Im worried Im already friendzoned and therefore I want somehow to build up any attraction, not got oneitis, but this one is worth a bit more effort than usual.


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2 weeks? I'd be worried about flaking more than anything. When you see her amp up the kino and run your regular routines. Though I would never recommend movie/dinner for a first date.
its not set in stone, what other ideas do you recommend?


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I like cafe's. They're low key and really help with setting a good conversation environment. After you can go for a walk to the park, a museum or an art gallery. Other times I'll do more active things like going bowling, playing billiards, tennis etc etc. The problem with classic movie dates is that you have no interaction. And dinners, in my mind are too formal for a first date. Malls or shopping centres can be good too if you want to buy something specific (I once took a girl to an IKEA :lol: ) Whatever you decide in the end, its going to be down to you to escalate, so make sure the venue doesn't provide you with logistics problems.

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