This girl am I talking tolives pretty far away. I met her when I was in town and we hung out a few times got pretty physical no sex yet though.

For about 2 months we would end up texting about every 2nd to 3rd day with both of us initiating an equal amount of the time. On several occasions she casually brought up the idea of me visiting. I played it cool and never let on, but eventually since I wanted to see her so I had to bring it up and say that I was thinking of coming so I did and she was totally down so I booked a ticket and told her and she is excited.

Now as all this happened I noticed she stopped initiating texts much. Like if I call or text it goes great but she's not initiating anymore. It use to be if I didn't for 2-3 days she would.

Is this normal once she realizes she has done enough to get me there? Like before she was trying harder to keep me interested because she really wanted me to come visit but now that I am it's not as much a concern cause I'm gonna be there?

Not really worried cause it's all going well. Just wondering if this is normal or if anyone has noticed this with other girls. (She's very independent and non-needy)

I did the exact same mistake as you, I thought I would take things slow. But taking things slow and not making a move to two different things. Have you two even kissed? I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you did, why didn't you follow up with sex?

2 months of just talking after being "physical"? She probably thinks you're just fucking around with her and wasting her time. She's moving on because she doesn't think you like her.

If you're worried about buying into her frame, you could always say "I'm busy this weekend but I'm going to _________ (her town) next Wednesday, let's go get coffee".

You DHV by being "busy" and now she's going to have to make time for you.