Whether you realize it or not, you WILL look at their breasts. Both men and women subconsciously look from crotch to chest until gender can be determined. It's evolution. I looked for the source so I could quote it, but it turns out I loaned it to a friend to read. Keep in mind however, that staring or talking to their chest' is quite a bit different than the casual glance. Additionally, keep in mind that women look at your chest subconsciously during conversation as well. We just don't notice that often because we don't have boobs. I'll post the quote when I can get my book back.

HAHAHA don't get caught. If she catches you looking and either looks down or covers up a little then hold a finger up while still looking and go "wait... wait... yeah go on" and then grin at her. Adds humour to the situation and some girls will think you were doing it as a joke all along.

Also maintaining good eye contact as a lot of people have already said is very important.

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hahaha spend enough time around strippers and you won't need to look. It won't impress you

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This is so true. I don't usually feel the need to look at their cleavage, it's about willpower. Just look them straight in the eyes the whole time you're talking to them, it builds more sexual tension than in you're just looking at their tits like every other guy in the room.

Like someone said, you are gonna look whether you want to or not. This isnt dont ever look, it is damage control. Minimize it, if you notice that you are looking, it is nothing compared to how much she notices.
This is a little like not being too interested, if you are the guy constantly checking out her boobs, you are too interested.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Hmmm sometimes i stare at girls boobs whilst having a conversation with them an i make them know that im staring at them. Sometimes i will just shut up an look at her boobs whilst shes talking.
I never usually get a bad reaction out of it as its more in a jokey way i like boobs so im going too look at them

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Well, everybody likes looking at boobs but there is such a thing as style.

Plus, if seeing boobs is such an unusual event for you that you seem to have to take each chance you get and maximize it, it tels her that you rarely have women in your life.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Yeah, I love boobs as much as the next guy if not more but Id rather see then in my bed. Patience is a virtue.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

If they are worth staring at, that means she is advertising them and wants the attention. Give women what they want, that's my philosophy.

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True i see where your coming from but this is more of my style sometimes when shes talking half way through a sentence i will just stop her an start talking about her boobs give them a little feel aswell guess there cup size ahh i wanted to save money but all this talk about boobs is making me want to go out tonight an chat some ladies up

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