hey guys im 16 and i met this girl 3 nights ago at swimming. got her number last night and texted her mid day during school. it seems to be going okay, any advice? heres some of the high's and low's
me 4:13 : you are starting to bore me ! D: lets play a game , i say a word and you finish it , panda

her 4:14 : okay uhm bear


etc
me : Nemo (from the movie)
her: Cute!
me : me? Oh i know ahah
her: haha oh yeah



after some more fluff it was getting boring when it was her turn so i started answering pancakes for every answer Just being silly and she went along then i said i like waffles.

Her: i like waffles too !
me: oh no.
Her: what you like pancakes more?
Me : no, ilike waffles but now we can never be together .
her: blah why blahhh
me : im looking for a pancake kinda girl ahah
her : ahahah !
me: problem?
her mmmmm i dont know
me:hmmm exceptions can be made
hey: haha good to know !
me : Woah woah woah did you think id make exceptions for you ? Cocky much ?*kinda cat string theory ish haha*

no reply because we had swim practice, couldnt really talk much.
im sexy AF btw... XD
after practice i screw around and is behind her in our cars, i pulled next to her and blew her a kiss and down shifted then vrrroooom total ricer i am i know


after
her : blah blah you gonna make us crash.
me: nah youll be fine
blah blah wont make you crash blah
her: yall are crazy !
me:true , atleast i didnt cut you off like spence wanted me to im not that mean!
her: haha hmmm i do nt know about that one
me : woah now waffle girl , im a good boy
her: haha sure you are
me: what you dont believe me eh?
her mm i dont know


any advice anything is much appreciated
sorry for bad spelling and grammar

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"Assassins do it from behind"- Some guy on the forum

honestly pretty good dude. i generally relate more sexually like asking what makes a girl and kind of just fuck around from there, but i really liked how you worked waffle girl in there. that generates a nice connection.

I'm a senior this year so i realize how important texting is for these girls. other dudes in community disagree, but they deal with older chicks whose lives havent been developed around their iphones so its a bit different. all around good tho. just keep it playful, and get it to hanging out, since thats the sole purpose of texting

All this flirty banter stuff is cute n all, but it ain't getting you nowhere...

Get her to go out to see you.

start qualifying her, get her to 'commit' slowly before asking her out, but you should be working toward that

@HeavyRota8tion i shall ! thanks for the feedback

@VietnameseProdigy well we are seeing each other every day at swimming and its getting more flirty, thanks for the feed back though

@bob mcswagger
no kidding, the texting mess brings more comfort, shes getting more flirty in texts and at swim , so i hope it goes well. Should i keep with the waffle girl nick name or no , Thanks for the feed back

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"Assassins do it from behind"- Some guy on the forum

If ur seeing her in person nothing trumps that in terms of building attraction, just be light and flully w texting to bridge time/get her used to having u as regular part of her day.

That makes sense, Thanks again!

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"Assassins do it from behind"- Some guy on the forum

Ask her to go out with you. It's time.

Time to bring out the mature, boring side of myself. But I have to ask, are you texting while driving? If so, possibly one of the stupidest things you could do. Also, save the reckless driving for, well, never. Trust me, you aren't impressing anyone.

As far as furthering yourself with this girl, you're doing fine. Time to man up and ask her out, she seems into you.

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I don't have an ego, I just love how awesome I am.

@96firebird haha no texting and driving ! she sent me that after she got home and i didnt reply for till i got home !


i plan on asking her out but in person she still seems a bit ackwardish but not bad. im going to build more comfort in person before i do end up getting that date.

THANKS ALL

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"Assassins do it from behind"- Some guy on the forum

Your past the comfort stage and into the seduction stage.

make it personal and Ring her up dont text, make her laugh, be a bit seductive and ask her out.

Remember one thing...

Building comfort with someone is just making a friend if you want more you have to build attraction, SO DO IT!!!!.

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