Still pretty AFC so third date with an HB8, still hadn't done anything. Date went pretty horribly, poor body language limited eye contact, she didn't laugh at many of my jokes. Plus she goes out a lot, drops e occasionally etc, and I tend to favor more conservative chicks. I just felt like we weren't meshing well at all so at the end of the date I told her "You're probably too much of a party girl for me to want to date, but we can still be friends."

Now i'm feeling like I was a little harsh (leave them better than when you met them), so I'm contemplating texting to apologize or something (at least for the party girl line). Thoughts?

Don't feel bad. If she's a HB8 and a "party girl" she'll have plenty of other offers and options. Not everybody is compatible, and you don't need to apologise for the fact that you decided you weren't that into her.

I see no harm on your side.

is it your first time giving the LJBF speech instead of receiving it? and so you think the girl will be as hurt from it as you were back in the AFC days?

worry not. you did the right thing. sometimes people just are not compatible. and, yes, you could probably fake it to the point where you can get laid. but on the longer term, this chick would not be a good match for you. by being straightforward about it, I think you conveyed Higher Value (I have options and am not desperate. So if we don't work out, we don't. No harm.) instead of being pussy-starved (you are such a bad match for me, but you are the hottest thing I ever saw so I will do whatever it takes since I am a loser and this might be my last chance to get laid)

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