Been noticing Ive been getting alot of flakes lately how can i ask a girl to hangout and basically have them looking forward to it? I find girls keep me as a side option i want to be the MAIN option.

Never ask. Always instruct and always make it on your turns.

"We're going get drinks. Join us."

"I want to see____. Come to the movies with me."

"You look like you might have a little rhythm. Lets dance"

Because self-esteem and conditioning many people could never imagine telling a woman what do or even teasing her, but that's what the prize does.

Im also talking over text as well.

text should make it easier. You dont have to deal with momentary pressures and you have more time to think of what to say

Whats the key to conditioning ?

The key to conditioning is not being pigeonholed and being something the girl doesn't have any past reference on how to deal with you so she has to deal with it on the fly.

Ignore the previous advice, you will sound like a cock unless you have the value to back it up. Even then you will probably sound like a cock.

Look into ways of becoming a higher value man and then they will want to hang out with you. Women do not fuck a box of tricks. They fuck men who they are attracted to, men of high value.

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The natural "Steve" who trained Richard La Ruina (Gambler)

http://www.authenticpua.com/primal-seduction/

The way you interact with someone establishes your value. I only preach what I practice and what works. So if you want to ignore me thats fine. The game will still work for me.

Also, I never said slap a bitch like James Bond.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oo0d1zTA ... =endscreen

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJWfObq2cFk

ignore the previous advice? you mean the way of asking girls out or practicing the art of conditioning? please share more!

Personally, i never like to give her the power. Like if you said 'Do you want to go get some coffee tomorrow?' Your putting the power in her hands. She gets to control what you do tomorrow as well as her. Instead say stuff like 'we should go out and get some coffee' or (the one i like to use) 'Maybe next time i have some free time, we should hang out'. Its always good that if she turns down a date to show that your busy and you have some other plans going on and ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS give her the benefit of the doubt. If she says some excuse dont go questioning her to try 'catch her out' on her excuse just saying something simple like 'No harm done! I just realized how much stuff that needs to be done, I'll try see you soon'. This then flips the switch on rejection seeming like she wants YOU. Saying other things life 'I'm going to get some coffee later, do you want to come along?' shows that your not going out of your way to meet her. Like if she says no, you were going anyway! This is the stuff i use and it really works for me and the other people i've told it too. Hope this helps.

That goes along with my perspective as well.