Hi guys, the whole nice guy vs assholes/bad boy has a been a debate that has been relatively popular on the forums no doubt. And honestly, nice guys do finish last. They're often are too scared to make a move or they come across too shy and nice for girls to consider them as potential boyfriends or in a sexual context. From experience, i know this to be true. Nice guys hardly get the girl because they are too afraid to lose her.

Assholes/bad boys on the other hand, are sometimes seen to be a societal put off. They swear, they smoke, drink, dominate etc. etc. and most nice guys wonder why girls fall for such douchebags. However, from experience, i also know that being aggressive and going for what you want really gets the job done. My very first lay happened about 2 years back when i hit up a high school friend. At that time, she was quite out of my league, but by being a man, busting her balls, and being sexually aggressive, she went home with me after our first date in years. The sex was pretty hot.

However, things dont seem to be going too well in college now. There's this girl i'm gunning for, and i'm quite sure she has something for me. but because of her friends cockblocking, influencing her and telling her that i'm not a good guy, she's resisting my advances. So in this circumstance, is it better to be a nice guy, or hold your frame as the bad boy? Not really too sure how this works in a college dynamic

you do not have to be an asshole, just a good guy vs a nice guys are very manipulative, they are nice cause the want something back, anyways, i recommend anybody, also nice guys tend to be softies and push overs, which kills attraction, best inner game books no more mr. nice guy(this is a must read) and psycocybernetics...

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WHen I first started using game I was really an asshole to girls. I would tease them, neg them, boss them around, curse at them, brag about myself....but they were attracted. Some were desperately attracted. I felt like this was playing on insecurities and I abandoned it mostly. The most memorable thing about this style for me is that I would actually be afraid to compliment women out of fear of losing value.

Lately I have been very nice to women and funny. I try to generate pleasant feelings and attract them with that good feeling I give them. I just dont take shit, but if a girl is disrespectful I try to check it gently. However, this doesn't always work and I feel insulted when I compliment a girl and get nothing in return. It may sound bad, but I'm being honest. Ideally, I would like to get girls by solidifying their insecuirities and raising their self-esteem. However, this does not always work. The most memorable thing about this method is the anger I feel when I have just complimented a girl, raised her self-esteem and then she gives me nothing.

The way I see it the asshole puts himself on a pedestal and puts women down. The nice guy puts the pussy on a pedestal and that makes you into a 40 year old virgin. Somewhere in between both people should be on a pedestal admirering each other. THats what love is about admirering each other.