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PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 11:45 pm 
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Well, I met a girl at work and she's working there for a short time.
I kind of like her, but our schedules don't match. She starts at a different time and the breaks are not at the same time either.
So we can't barely talk with each other.
What can I do to make a move???
I did give her a Christmas card and she returned one to me.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 12:50 am 
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Common thought is don't sarg at work. Why when there are many more out there?


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 3:42 am 
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why cant u change when u work?

or where do u work ? do u maybe pass by her during your work?

like the guy said above i dont usually sarg at work . .

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 4:24 am 
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Well, I met a girl at work and she's working there for a short time.
I kind of like her, but our schedules don't match. She starts at a different time and the breaks are not at the same time either.
So we can't barely talk with each other.
What can I do to make a move???
I did give her a Christmas card and she returned one to me.
Have you considered asking her out, or for her number next time you see her?

Listen, if you like her chicks kind of expect you to be brave enough to ask them out, ask for her number, etc...

I'd say the fact that she gave you a Christmas card is almost a guarantee of acceptance.

Just do it.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 4:40 am 
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Well, I met a girl at work and she's working there for a short time.
I kind of like her, but our schedules don't match. She starts at a different time and the breaks are not at the same time either.
So we can't barely talk with each other.
What can I do to make a move???
I did give her a Christmas card and she returned one to me.
Have you considered asking her out, or for her number next time you see her?

Listen, if you like her chicks kind of expect you to be brave enough to ask them out, ask for her number, etc...

I'd say the fact that she gave you a Christmas card is almost a guarantee of acceptance.

Just do it.
I agree with starbuck.

You have to just approach her. Talk to her, build attraction.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 10:49 pm 
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Well, I made some progress (y). I asked her out to go to the cinema on Sunday afternoon and she said yes...
Wohoo:D

Anyway does anyone have some tips like what to do or what i really shouldn't be doing...?

And thanks for the replies earlier.

Rico


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Well, I made some progress (y). I asked her out to go to the cinema on Sunday afternoon and she said yes...
Wohoo:D

Anyway does anyone have some tips like what to do or what i really shouldn't be doing...?

And thanks for the replies earlier.

Rico
Good job man.

Just be a gentleman and try to show her a good time on your first date. It's ok to touch her, but only in non intimate places. Make eye contact with her, and don't forget to smile. Try to make her comfortable. Don't be too serious.

And enjoy the movie.

Try to learn more about her. Her dreams, goals in life, what she likes to do, etc.. Girls like attention, they also respond well to talking about themselves.

Then, if everything goes well, call her up in a few days and tell her you're taking her out again and ramp it up a little bit.

You didn't mention your ages, so it's sort of hard for us to suggest things to do with her.

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 11:35 pm 
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Good Job man! score;
Heres a big on to remember, I take it for granted since you are on a PU forum you are a recovering AFC, if you want to be the guy that stands out don't play twenty questions with her on the date. Since your going to a cinema you should ask her out to a cup of coffee afterwards and talk about the movie and some other interesting questions. Don't do what everyone else does;
like where do you work, where you live, your favourite colour. Instead ask things like;
- what would you do if you could do it without a chance of failure.
- what passions do you have in life.
etc etc


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Well, I met a girl at work and she's working there for a short time.
I kind of like her, but our schedules don't match. She starts at a different time and the breaks are not at the same time either.
So we can't barely talk with each other.
What can I do to make a move???
I did give her a Christmas card and she returned one to me.
Find out where she goes after work and "run into her" there.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 11:20 pm 
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So I had my date tonight, the movie was nice and afterwards we walked awhile and ended in The Irish Pub, where we had a drink and talked a lot.
Afterwards I cycled with her to her house and she showed me her room.
We had another drink, but we didn't do any closing (such as kissing).

Later on I went home..
So that was my first date with her.

Anyway, my friend adviced to call or send her a text message, witch I did with the question if we can do something like this again.

By the way, our ages are 31 and 25, and yes I am 31:P

Rico


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 11:28 pm 
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Good for you rico.

Next time she shows you her bedroom, jump on it. :lol:

Like a gentleman of course. :wink:

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