Soo i really wantet to write this wantet to share my exprience of the last weeks that im going throw what i realised, is that this game cannot be done alone the bigest problems are the guys that are brining their girlfriend with them in a club i realised that my approach axiety is here for a reason because i can never know if the girl that im trying to hit on is allrighty taken or not they dont have a mark on her t-shirt and only because shes wearing a ring dosent mean shes taken could be a friendship ring with her female friend? im in this game now for over 7 month and i only approached like 7 girls with newbie openers like do you have a ligther? Or hei do you know what time it is ? and only in the smoking room i cannot push myself harder to take a greater risk becausue i allrighty had alot of bad experience with invous boyfriends for example last week I was in a nightclub for older ppl the most ppl there are over 25+ i was there for the second time and emedetly after i entered in the club i ordered a beer at the bar and right next to me was a hot girl i would rate her as a 9 almost 10 well since i didt know if shes allrighty taken or not i just watched at her and smilied and wantet to see her reaction afte i did that her boyfriend came running to me like a retard and said "Heiii you watch my girlfriend again im slam your head on the wall and kill you" i was like thinking in my head oh my omg not a druged idiot again so i said "hei i dont know even know who is your girlfriend and i didt watched her dont worry im not here to make trouple" then hes like "lie more I saw exatly what you did" then i asked him "are you from turkey? you look like a turkish guy" he answer "nope im arabic" after that i said well im half arabic too only because we had the same nationalites he calmed down a little bit and gave me his hand and then he even asked me if I find his girlfriend hot and he wantet me to rate her but i didt said anything because it was pretty obvous that this guy was in a realy aggresiv state and i dont wantet to say something wrong to make him even more angry before he left he bar he was coming again to me near my head a wishpert me in the ear im going to kill everyone that is watching my girl soursly? wtf? what the hell happend with this world its not safe anymore u cannot enter in a sozial gathering and even watch a woman and their bf are getting aggresiv and threating you i allways need to have a clasp knife in my jeans before i enter in a club because i never know what is going to happen inside this world sux im really arrived at the end now i dont wanna give up this game because i know i have potenial and im not stupid and i the motivation to become good at this but i need a wing with me together ofc i can go in a club and talking with alot of strange ppl thats no problem for me anymore but when it comes to woman its so damn risky... specialy if you are alone and the guy that is threating you have like 20 ppl with him and only because of this he has so much balls alone he would be a little mouse thats for sure my idea know is i wanna create a PUA clan that is going out in the night for sarging so we can protect each other from this brainwashed idiots what you think guys? and whats the best way to find a good wingman i have some friends but their not interestet in in going out in clubs either they allrighty have a girlfriend or they just play video games on the computer the whole time i have really good friend hes orignaly from america and we know each since we were childs but when i ask him to come with me in a club hes allways like "No i dont wanna come my life isnt so easy like yours i dont have enough money and i dont like the SPAM in clubs there so many idiots there that will insult you or atack you its better to stay at home" even if i offer him to buy him some drinks when we are in the club he just dont wanna come with me i have to agree with him that there are alot of brain washed idiots out there that are allways looking for war but will i quit just because of them? NO WAY i just life one tim i wanna use that time that i am on the earth no matter what happens do you guys have good experience in finding a good wingman throw the internet i cannot convice my best friend to come with me it would be so awesome to have a nice time with him hes like one of the only persons on this world that i really trust but i think hes just to scared and hes missing alot... pls help PUA means so much for me it has giving a purpose in my life greeting from switzerland

even mystery had matador with him while sarging im not so sure if could be so confidence alone i think game is a based on team work

approach 7 girls in 7 month, your not getting anywhere!

Also, I think you lack basic social skills. You at least need this to get girls. Take a step backward and work on making guy friends who think like you do. I can go out alone now and make a random guy my wingman and game. This is how I got some of my guy friends.

When you social skills becomes way better, and your actually a fun guy to hang out with, you will start making female friends that will introduce you to there friends. No cold approach needed. In fact, I have not done a cold approach for 3 weeks because girls just have introduce me to there friends. Oh and i started from bottom and worked my way up.

dude 1st:
that text to read was a pain in the ass because:
a. no formating ad no sentencing. come on you've been to school
b. beein afraid is the first thing to master. dont be afraid. had that problem too. see it like this; every girl is single. now its easier.

so yes a lot of dickheads are around but rather die trying something than get run over for nothing. carring a knife is stupid. i carry pepper spray. it saved my ass once

anyways i wrote you a PM, im up for meeting. holla back

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I read it all. But dude use paragraphs and bullet point's. I agree with you on that fact, if i went out with you i would back you up. I would smash the cunts head on the table. No problem. I would help a friend out in need any day. :/ I need friends like that but no one "here" is like that. :/

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Don't Follow Someone Else's Path. Carve your Own. Be the person that you want to be not everyone else. Be Unique.

Brosef pay attention.

1) These guys are right. make your posts readable

2) You can do it alone. Its not hard. It will build your own confidence. Forget about the rest. People like your friend who would rather stay home are pussies and soon you will outgrow them

3) Like any sport there is a pain period. I am still in mine and i am having good success.

4) All failures are success. Learn from your mistakes.

5) You have to smile! I am already a little creeped out by you just by your picture dog. A smile with disarm the creepiness and put you in the game.

You got this

if your problem is other Alpha guys / bf's learn how to diffuse confrontational situations (and as a backup learn to fight, keeps you fit too!) a good book i found was "how to win friends and influence people" lots of tricks how to turn confrontations into enjoyable encounters, getting your way and even making friends out of them.