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friend zone happens for two reasons in my opinion
reason 1- the pussy zone, the pussy zone happens when the girl finds you attractive at first, but you don't escalate, you don't capitalize on her signs of interest or lead her towards sex, instead of exuding sexual intentions towards her, you act completely neutral, safe and a-sexual, you just start reacting to her, get needy, she gets frustrated at your lack of passion for her and descided maybe it's better to be friends since you're too afraid to just take a risk and go for it, after all she won't go for it or let you know she wants it, that would make her look like a slut, and she is not a slut!!, she'd rather just find some other guy that isn't afraid of vaginas then risk looking like a slut
solution to this problem- spend some time apart from her, enough so you can come back and change her perception of you, when you return, get your logistics set up so that you have a fun place to take her where you can access a spot to have sex with her easily that is close by, actually start indicating your interest towards her, flirt with her, if she is not aware that you are sexually interested in her, then you're doing it wrong, and don't ask her if she knows... she knows but she will play dumb if you try to put any responsibility on her, remember she doesn't want to look or feel like a slut, and being in any way responsible for her actions = it was her doing, and that makes her easy, so just man up, take some risks, hit on her, kiss her, get her to the logistics you have set up, and fuck her, show her you are not gay, prove you have a dick and are interested in using it reguardless of what she will think about you
reason 2- not attractive to her zone, could be plenty of reasons, maybe she hates your personality, thinks your boring to be around and annoying, maybe she thinks you are far below her physical standards and has no interest in seeing you naked or having your penis anywhere near her, maybe she is a gold digger and one of her standards is she will not have sex with a guy unless he can support a kid, maybe she has been tainted by a friends opinion and is under social pressure to specifically not hook up with you, there could be a variety of reasons, but the important thing is... she will be non compliant towards your advances and offer little to no investment in to an interaction with you
solution to this problem- improve yourself, work on everything, your lifestyle, your social skills, your outlook on life, your physical fitness, your confidence and self esteem, your finances, your social circle and social connections, your style, your hygene, your sense of self, everything, improve as a person as much as possible so that you can forget about her, move on, and one day when you return she will be greeted by a different person, and hopefully she wants to fuck that person, if not... well you can't win them all
GOOD LUCK
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