Alright so a couple weeks ago my girlfriend had dumped me over SPAM video, that left me shattered and in tears. But we still kept talking and she said there is hope between us, and give it some time and i will see you when i get back from mexico. Im so ****** up over this girl, the pain is unbearable. But i kept on trying to sweet talk her back to me but it didn't work. When we saw each other five days ago on the 20th we were so happy to see each other and both shed tears. I gave her roses and she gave me a lot of gifts, we talked about how we might get back together and we got pretty intimate. But now today i have seem to be blocked on facebook and her friend told me her relationship status went back into a "Relationship". What the hell is up with that? Do girls like destroying peoples hearts?

forget her, move on.

just move on.

Looks like you are really into this girl but there is nothing you can do so fuck here.
I would send here a text - Have a nice life. And forget here forever.

i agree with Mirage13

as easy as it sounds to 'move on' i fear this won't be so easy in practise for you.

so the question is 'how' to move on.

your problem isn't this girl. you think it is, but it isn't. if it wasn't this girl then it would have been another. and if you 'move on' i fear you would only make the same mistake and the same thing would happen further down the line.

your problem is you are not giving yourself what it is that you seek. what is it you seek? many things. validation. love. attention. respect. self-worth. relying on others for this is always bad news as you have discovered because one way or another they will never always be around.

once you know that all this you get from yourself you need never rely on others to give you any of these. thus the actions of others have less power over you. this frees you up to take better control of your life and enjoy real relationships with women rather than using them to bolster your own self-worth.

so, how to find what it is you are looking for? its not easy. and its not a quick fix. clue: it's not outside of you.

Sorry to hear this man. Many things could be going on here, but it is out of your control to really know. Your best shot is to really move on. This is difficult, and I myself have not yet been in a proper relationship to know what it's like to breakup fully, but I have read it is just as bad as another physical addiction.

Know that it will take time. Your best chance are to unfriend her on Facebook, delete her number, and any other contact information. Go out with your friends and buddies and maybe hit on a chick or two. Right now focus on having a good time as best as you can.

When you feel the time is ready, begin to talk to other girls again. You will see that once you make a new connection with a girl, that your ex wasn't REALLY that special. A lot of it is chemicals in your brain firing off.

Get out of the house and begin a hobby, get creative, focus on your work, talk to other girls. THIS is what you must do to properly move on.