Had been messing around with HB 9 for weeks. Had some performance anxiety early on, but tonight finally got inside of her.

Came fast, in like 30 seconds with no rubber, but I pleasured her orally and we had some nice foreplay.

She suspected my difficulty getting it up and going strong was because my mind was on my previous girlfriend, who I broke up with a month ago (she heard this at work)

She asked me if this is just a rebound thing, I said we'll take it as it comes, and she said she was fine if it was just sex/friends with benefits.

She said shit like "shoulda seen a therapist, would have saved me alot of time to get you inside of me" I ignored of course.

Seemed kinda odd to me that she wants to be fuck buddies with a guy who had trouble getting it up several times, had to jerk it several times to get it up, then came quick, but she attributes this to feelings for my last GF.

She finds me hot, of course, but do you think I'll have a hard time getting her back in the sack? (she just got out of a three year relationship too)

I think the best thing to do now is freeze her out? I saw her tonight at work, but last night she denied an invite to hang out tonight (though she was closing at work and starts school early in the morning...this was the first invite ever denied) we kissed briefly when nobody was around, and she was flirtatious with me all night and such.

Why would you freeze her out when she hasn't done anything wrong? I just hope you managed to get her off with oral since the sex itself was, as you said, lacking. If that's the case, no big deal. Carry on as normal. I don't see any problem here at all.

I gave her oral for a long while and she pulled me off of that and said she'd rather have my dick. I do keep telling her though that I am going to make her come from oral, and say some dirty things. I did make the attempt and she knows i am willing to

she digs her nails into me hard when I'm doing it too, and gives me hickeys, ect