@ Pumpington, Thank you for the feedback, I've jotted your suggestions down in my notebook, and I plan on using what you suggested next time these things occur (And I know they will).

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Ug, I was a some what sick this weekend, so on the seduction end not a whole lot has happened, but I did get some very valuable feedback from one of my friends. Recently I was trying to get with this one girl, and honestly I thought it wasn't going anywhere, and the reason I thought that was because I know I was doing decent of the emotional investment side of things, but I just didn't really feel any sexual tension.

In any case, earlier this week I was ay my friends house, and out of the blue he tells me "Hey ___, told me she really likes when you come out, and she wanted me to bring you out more with us."

I thought to myself 'Well, I guess I didn't do so bad after all.'

So my plan is next time we all go out, I am going to try to get her to the side, to either sexually escalate, or just flat out ask her on a date.
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Stepping stone goals.

So I took the time to write out my goals for over the next 3-6 months and thought I would post them. (I notice I've been just randomly posting my goals, instead of just making one post where everyone can see what I am doing.)

Tattoos.
I've gotten all the money together and I plan on getting these three Tattoos.
Stomach: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Descen ... _Weyden%29
Chest: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Ruben ... _mages.jpg
Mid Back: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Creation_of_Adam

Core (Inner game) books. A while back I read a post on how these four books should be at the core of everyone seduction basics.
1. The Seven Habits of Highly effective people (done)
2. (Re-read) How to win win friends and Influence people.
3. The Power of Now.
4. The New-psycho-Cybernetics.

Seduction/social goals.
1. Read and Apply Gambler's Material.
2. Make eight male friends that have integrity.
3. Work on, getting the number, going in for the kiss, giving the girl the option to sleep with you.
4. Do 100 approaches where I get far in the interaction (maybe not a close but have a good solid 20 minute interaction where I practice what I learned, and got useful feedback.)

Social Hobbies
1. Work on my Dance
2. Join a MMA Gym.

Health
1. Get to 10% body fat.

Chess.
1. Study common patterns, and pawn structures
2. Win 100 games and get a 1000 pt rating.
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Currently Those are my stepping stone goals that I plan to/have been pursuing for the next 3-6 months.

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"Long is the way
And hard, that out of hell leads up to light." - John Milton's Paradise lost.

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Field report

Girl # 1: Cocktail waitress @ Irish pub.

When it comes Cocktail waitresses, bartenders, and other hot staff members of bars and clubs, I have a little bit of an advantage that, while I don't always use, I have. I am personal friends with a lot of D.Js. Bartenders, bouncers, Cocktail waitresses, and managers of clubs and bars. Why and how I obtained these connections I am not really sure, I just know I've always been good at getting these people to hang out with me outside of their place of work.

So any case, one of my friends started their new job at a new bar in town, and I went to visit to see how the place is. Well one of the cocktail waitresses is smoking hot. So I turn to my Bar tender friend (A Woman).

Me: That girl in the black tank top, she is fucking hot. Can I get a introduction?

Bar tender: I can, but just to let you know, those tits are fake.

Me: I don't care.

Bar tender: And she is 21, and has a three year old.

Me: We've all made mistakes.

Bar tender: Haha, okay.

I get my introduction, however I think my friend over did it a little in the introduction, I don't mind me being talked up, but to a point.

In any case, the interaction got cut a little short, as the place was busy, and also there was another guy hitting on her HARD.

Which later me and the bar tender went back to talking.

Bartender: Go talk to her.

Me: I would but that guy is all over her.

Bartender: That dude is a douche, he hits on us all the time, and never tips. However, I'll tell you when she works during are non-busy hours, and you can hit on her then.

Me: Oh I love you __.
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Things I've learned about the girl
1. Fake tits.
2. She has a three year old.
3. Her tongue is pierced (This passes one of my qualifications of tattoos/body modifications).

Next move.
1. Get a conversation going: Flirt and qualify.
2. Attempt to get the number and date.
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The 100 girl interaction.

I remember Andy Yosha once saying "You can take your time with seducing a girl." I think sometimes I get caught up in the whole P.U.A. you need to get a ONS/SNL mindset. So with that said, my 100 girl interaction goal I am going to take my time with. If I get a ONS or SNL, great, but really if me getting with the girl take 3-5 times meeting up than so be it.

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"Long is the way
And hard, that out of hell leads up to light." - John Milton's Paradise lost.

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Boy I am behind, logging my Journal.

I've been making progression in my goals, while others have been slow go.

Tattoos: The Artist is book for at least another week, and we have not begun, I was hoping to already have started, but I have no control over another person's schedule.

Core: Of the four books I want to read and apply at this time, I am done with the first two, and half way through the "Power of Now." I'll be posting my notes of How to make friends and influence people hopefully soon.

Dance & MMA: I am doing really well in Dance, found myself a partner for competitions, and have been testing and getting advice from couches, on how to improve my technique and styling. I found a MMA Gym I want to try for 3 months, and will join after my eye doctor appoint, when I receive eye contacts.

Health: Getting to 10% body fat has been a harder battle than I originally thought it was going to be. Really I just want a 6 pack, and I barley have a light outline of one forming. It was estimated for me that I should hit my 10% body fat goal (visible 6 pack), sometime in the next 6-8 weeks.

Chess: I've begun my adventures in the world of chess, online, and currently have 15 of the 100 wins under my belt, and have been studying the basic fundamentals and principles to the game.

Seduction/ Lifestyle: I've watched all the Video on Gambler's material that I have. I took notes, wrote of list of ideas and suggestions I really like, and tossed the one's I did not like, or had better ideas and suggestions for.

I really like Gamblers stuff on non-verbal communication and approach invites, as I have found that waving at a girl, or doing little sign language with you hands, works pretty good. I love his suggestion on subjects when it comes to talking to women should be focused on what motivates the girl, what is the girl emotional about, and character traits about the girl. The last two things Gambler suggest that I really liked and have not practice much is, Multilevel communication, where you talk boring and act sexual, and Micro-escalation: Where you sexual escalation is on a scale of 1-100 and you work up the scale.

The Goal for making eight male friends with integrity, I have established five of the eight, and have three in mind for the last three spots, but still am getting to know them.

100 interactions: This one I've been really lagging on, and I don't know why, however I have found a solution! Last night me and Pumpington made deal a with each other that the the two of us will both have a 100 SOLID interactions with women over the next 90 days. I define solid as me going through whole seduction process, rather I get a lay or rejection does not matter, as Long as I Introduce my name, attempt to get her to emotional invest, and me sexually escalate, as long I do that and end it with either a number, kiss, or F close, win or lose, that is 1 solid interaction.

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"Long is the way
And hard, that out of hell leads up to light." - John Milton's Paradise lost.

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Field report: Salsa Club.

Well I have been looking for a new Salsa club to dance at, since the one I use to regularly visited, closed down. Well after months of searching, I have found a new location.

The place is legit and has some amazing potential. However tonight my 'performance' was piss poor. I read somewhere, that when a girl comes over and stands by you, that is an approach invite, well from what I experienced tonight, that is nonsensical crap. I had a few girls come over and stand by me, and every last one of them rejected my invite to dance.

Now, while disappointed I am going to continue to come back to this place, and the next two weekends I am going to try two different things.

One weekend, I am going to try to talk to them before trying to get them to dance.

another weekend, I am going to try to get them to dance without using any verbal communication, I am just going to try non-verbal communication.

Honestly, my seduction skill set, has been extraordinary sluggish, and I very disappointed in myself. A couple things I've notice I have extraordinary difficulties in are the following.

Sexually escalating, (this is my Achilles heel)

and building comfort within myself during the conversation. What I mean by this is that I sometime cut conversations short because the awkwardness of not knowing exactly how to lead the conversation bears down on me. What I mean by that is that saying hi and introducing myself, easy. Listing to other people's passions, qualifying, etc, easy. Getting from introduction to talking about people's passions, that is a little bit more jagged for me, and has left me with battle scars (Though I have done this before, just often it takes me 1 out of 10 tries and I am not exactly sure what I did to get the conversation to that point).

While I am currently working through 'defeating' my ego (The Power of Now, and The new psycho-cybernetics), I feel the next move after I accomplish that (hopefully after new years I'll be on my way to do so) is to work on my Charisma skills some more.

Well, if anyone has any advice or comments that would wish to offer up, please do so I would be very much thankful.

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"Long is the way
And hard, that out of hell leads up to light." - John Milton's Paradise lost.

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