| Don't trust early IOIs.
My ex girlfriend is fucking gorgeous. She's a flat-out ten, hands down, no
doubt. We broke up, and I was really upset. A few weeks later, she started
to call me often and tell me that she wants to hang out with me.
She did to me what she did to you: show interest in conversation and tried
to maintain her end of the interaction. But then when I tried to make a move
and ask her if we should try things again, she said that she wasn't interested
in me "that way."
Anyways, that's when I was an AFC. Since then, I've managed to get her
back hahaha. And here's what you need to do:
When you go to her house, you need to play the game correctly, okay?
You can get the conversation started with an opener, and show disinterest.
What I like to do, is talk to the parents for a little while. Or the siblings if
she has any. Disarm them first before DHVing yourself. You need to make
them think that you are not after the girl. Once you get in good with the
family, you can start with her.
Remeber: you get along with EVERYONE...EXCEPT your target. Later on,
you can isolate her take her away, and then do some DHV material...for
example, the cube test, ESP stuff or something. Personally, I like to do a
simply magic trick. I take a tooth pick, make it disappear and then put
my hand behind her ear, gently stroke her neck, and then make the tooth
pick come back out from behind her ear. It's a great peice that I like to use.
Anyways, so you need to make sure that you DHV and DO NOT SHOW
and interest in her, until she starts giving you IOIs...and nothing too simple
like her looking at you during convo. Some people say that's an IOI, but
I don't like to trust that one.
Some ones that you should look out for are:
* Licking her lips.
* Playing with her necklace/neck
* Scratching her nose/hand (Yes, that's right. It's a subconscious IOI).
and my favorite:
* Excessively playing with/touching her hair.
Once you get about 3 or 4 of these, you can being to give slight IOIs in A3.
Qualify her, ask her what makes you so intruiged about her.
She's got a boyfriend?...So? That has NEVER gotten in my way.
If she EVER brings up her boyfriend, ignore it. Cut that thread, and move on to something else.
Don't linger on the thread for long. It's not going to help you.
Attraction isn't a choice. It's just a FEELING that she can't help but feel
if you successfuly demonstrate the 5 attraction switches:
* Willingness to emote.
* Willingness to walk away.
* Leader of men.
* Protector of loved ones.
* Preselected by women.
Those five will make her FEEL attracted to you...not by choice, but by
emotional circuitry. She will kiss you if you do everything right.
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