Hey guys, this is my first post and i have a quite a few questions i would like help with. I'm unsure of what category to post my topic in so I will be reposting it in a couple because I need a quick reply

So, high school is about to start once again and I had this messed up summer fling, if you may... I am really unsure. I am just lookin for a fuck buddy

Before school ended, a HB7ish (killer ass) gave me huge attraction signals and I just said why not?, it could be fun. I was escaltating during our time together in classes, we talked a lot, it was great. If I had to call her, I would look away and touch her arms or thighs. When we would sit facing each other, in groups. If our feet or legs met, she would not move them. We basically eye fucked each other every day. She laughs at everything I say. I could state more examples but it should be enough. I didnt ever hug her or kiss close, I tried to keep the sexual tension between us. I didnt even mean to do any of this in the begining, haha.

So as we texted, I would bring up sex, her ass, and just stayed out of the friend zone. We played lots of texting games, some nights we stayed up till 4 texting and it just built the tension and I would keep it b/w us during school. School ended, A week or two later, I asked her out over text, pussy move? Fuck yeah. She said, idk, no, she will try blah blah blah . I got mad, froze her out for a week. I was so confused b/c at this point we had sexted a couple times too, bitches be crazy? ahah

We started talking again, I asked her out weeks later, and still no for an answer. I still stuck around for some reason, idk why though. She goes on vacation, she starts most of the convos, sends me dirty pictures, more IOI, laughs at all my jokes blah blah.

Now I she has sent me half naked, naked pics, no pusssy or nipples shots though. I got her to a point where she started the convo with a few pics and we ended up sexting... This all feel fucked up, is it? I also let her start convos, once she started it 4 days in a row and they would end being a solid few hours, if not more.

So my questions are, if you read all that then you have to read this: When school starts and I see her with atleast 1 friend who knows whats going on b/w us, how do I open? Hug her? just say hey?

But if she is alone, and if I'm lucky enough, we're alone, then do i hug her? kiss her?

Sometimes, we end up seeing each other during classes, we're alone getting water or washroom, then do I make a move?

I think she is getting too attached, I have minor feelings for her. I am not going in a relationship with her, I think I have made it clear.

Thanks

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Getting up was the second hardest thing morning.

YES! make a move!

Good eye contact before the hug, wander your finger tips down the small of her back brushing her ass, whisper in her ear "I am going to have you"...walk away!

You will get a response!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

dude FUCK HER. It doesnt matter what happens after that. she clearly wants your shit. It does not what people say in the slightest unless you think that your like a 9 or a 10 and your lowering your standards. If thats the case, keep that shit on the way down low. Hot girls dont want to be with guys that drop there standards.

I have done that a few times, so when asked about it, i generally just lie and say it never happened unless there were witnesses, and that was one time, and i basically sold myself for prostitution in that case to an HB7, so it was fine.

either way.... fuck her

i would fuck her but the thing is doesnt say yes to chill, just me n her. im not chillin with her n her friends, fuck that.


Do i make a move only if we are alone or does it matter if shes around her friends?

Should i have a move planned for either siuations? if so, would a simple hug do if shes around her hoes? haha

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Getting up was the second hardest thing morning.

I mean she is clearly into you, so why dont you just ask her to do some steroytpical date stuff. Dinner, Movies, Minni Golf, or some shit like that. Kino the hell out of it and hook up after. Do that a couple times and ask her out.

alright dude. i was in your exact situation. there was a girl who i could tell wanted my shit, but wouldn't chill with me alone. it was just something that wasn't done, kinda taboo i guess.

anyway, heres what i did, literally by accident. I lent her a movie about a month before, and had said a few times i needed it back, but wasn't serious about putting any effort into getting back. But then, i was chilling with a different girl and wanted to watch this movie with her so i called the chick who had the movie and said i needed it so i was just coming over to pick it up. she said alright since i was just picking up a movie.

She came to the door wrapped in a blanket and was naked underneath. she had the dvd ready at the door, but i just made some bs excuse to come in and it just went from there,

Basically, leave something of yours at her house, say your picking it up, proceed...

I appreciate the help but my question is still un answered.
Do i make a move only if we are alone together or if shes around her friends? or around the friend that knows our litlte situation?

And when I do, what can i say and do?

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Getting up was the second hardest thing morning.

general rule of thumb is to be alone imo. doesnt matter if they know. girls are very concerned with their social reputation and while hooking up with you wouldnt necessarily make it worse, you should make it so that it doesnt even cross her mind.

I recommended the "left something at ur house" scenario because its just the two of you, and there isnt any real pressure on either of you. if anything does happen, she can easily tell anyone that aks, "It just happened."

ALSO. one seriously important recommendation. Try to hook up with her asap. if it doesnt work the first time, realize that she may have been attracted to you, but you just did something that messed with the rhythm of the situation. If so, look back on it. maybe you were kind of awkward, too serious, idfk really just see what you might have done wrong. If you found something wrong, fix it, give it another go and if she still isnt down for anything, FUCKING LEAVE. stop talking to her, shit aint gonna happen.

If she hits you up, just say, "i really dont trust myself around you. if we hangout out, something might happen."

If she says she doesnt care or still says in any way that she still wants to hang out, its on.

But to answer your question as directly as possible, be alone. Even if your at a party of something, find a way to take her aside. I would do it like "o check this out" or "help me with drinks." some bs just to get them alone. they'll know its bull shit so if they go along with it, its a good sign. But alone cant really be stressed enough.

As for what to do, you will generally have to gage the situation. i like to grab them playfully, bring our faces really close together, and then it really just happens. you will have to gage the situation tho. if you're not confident with knowing how to make a move, look up kissing routines. Dont always use the routine tho, just use it to get your confidence up in that area, and then do your own shit. it will seem more natural.

Hope that helped. good luck man