Recently I went to the mall, started talking with a girl that worked at a sun glass store and after talking with her for a while I set up a date with her at a mini golf place that's next to a diner. it was at 7:00 Pm. (I tried to set up as much as possible in real life, even though I could hv done better.)

She gave me her number, I talked with her a little and that was it. Here's the thing: what do I gotta do to meet up with her. I'll show you what I mean: (1) Like do I text her tonight at 10:00 or should I wait till tomorrow?

(2) If so what should I say, I think: "Hey it's Pink, here's my number make sure to put it in your VIP list "

What do I say after that? Also how do I find out what time she's free to see me?

How do you have almost 200 posts, yet still clueless on something so simple?

Anyways... text her whenever you aren't in the state of neediness. I would say "Hey this is the hot guy you gave your number too the other day, I'm free on blah blah to kick your butt at mini-golf, lets do it around 7pm."

Don't copy what I wrote, it works for me because that's my personality. Make up your own, I'm just giving you an idea.

I just want to do this the Pua way; Here's the issue: recently some of the girls I games were flakes, I texted her tonight (at 10) and she didn't text me back - does that happen often to you guys?

I'm replaying the encounter over in my head and it's hard to figure out what I might hv done wrong for her not to txt me back? Someone recently commented that I don't escalate enough - maybe so. I should hv touched her more and I tried to keep eye contact a lot, I even did a palm reading bit and joked around with her (reading her future) saying she's meet a handsome guy, then I begged her - she laughed a lot. But maybe I wasn't flirty enough. If anyone would like a word for word transcript let me know. So what's the deal here?

text nw

Heavy,

What do you mean?

Text now.

Heavy,

I already texted her tonight? It's in my post.

what did you text her?

"Hey it's Pink, here's my number make sure to put it in your VIP list" That line was recommended to me by some good members of the board. But I got no response?

How can I stop this from being a flake?

viet I like your style
There is no text to make her reply to you, but some things will help
She has 20 other guys hitting on her, and that makes it 20x easier to NOT reply to any texts because shell be lazy/overwhelmed, send her something fun and different shell want to reply to (nothing canned, if it's canned it's not fun and different, say something about your or her life)

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Thanks for the reply guys. So since she didn't respond last night, I'll txt her again tonight. Idk if she gots like tons of guys hitting on her, it's just confusing why she didn't txt back.

Me and her were joking about being a Gypsy, and I reffered to her as one and she laughed a lot. So should I text her something like, "Hey it's my favorite Gypsy girl!" Idk, what do you guys think? I think I should text something to her about being a Gypsy, because it would sorta help standout? Guys, I just don't wanna mess this up. I wanna learn as much as possible. What do you suggest me saying?

Think about this. What would you do if i texted you "Hey its my favorite gypsy!" you'd think its wierd and that you have no reason to reply right? Before you text her just think "What would i do if i got this text from someone". Send her a message you feel like you would feel compelled to respond to

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Char,

From the top of my head I really can't think of nothing. I'd just say, "Heyy *Her Name* you ready to get your butt kicked at mini golf?"

Idk - it's just a thought. What would u suggest me toting her in order to get a response?

try harder little man

What do you think Char?