Thanks Skillz, always appreciate your videos

hit on the fatty/ugly first, then move to target after, ignore the target, escalate on the ugly, then pawn her and move to target, you will get better responses from the fattie, if a fattie is giving you problems but you have compliance from her, put your arm around her lower back and place your hand on her side, right above her hip touching her hip, right on her fat, as soon as your hand is resting there, she can feel that you can feel her fat, this will make her feel insecure, you will be giving her positive attention, while at the same time making her feel insecure since she knows you can feel her fatness, this will often change her tune into trying to impress you, instead of trying to cockblock you (that or she will move your hand cause she feels uncomfortable with you feeling and knowing she is fat, it just reminds her of her fatness), it is better to just suck it up and hit on the fatty, then keep switching interest from the target to the fatty back and fourth, two girls competing to win you over is better then one girl interested and another one cock blocking

when handling groups, you really got two choices, win the group, ignore the target, move to target after winning group, so the group co-operates with you, and guides your cock instead of blocking it

or

hyper focus on target, not a shred of attention to obstacles, lock your target in physically immediately so that the friend can't lock her in and move her (put your arms around her, or hug her, get close and physical), don't acknowledge they even exist to the point it is so awkward for them to even be around they just leave you be, be persistent and block them out with body language, if a girl starts causing trouble and you have the target locked in physically, first try to get your target to help you, if she won't go against her friend, just give out commands, such as,

-STOP COCK BLOCKING
-DON'T COCK BLOCK YOUR FRIEND
-THIS IS MY GIRL, GET YOUR OWN
-HEY!, WHAT ARE YOU DOING, NO TOUCHY

make sure these come off as intimidating and dominant, but after shouting or doing this, do something friendly to relieve the tension a bit, (make a joke or a light hearted comment after doing these so you don't seem like such a dick and it turns into something fun for the target, rather then something serious and demeaning to her friend you want her to think you are a dominant and intimidating confident guy, but you are just joking around and tooling her friend a bit)

-STOP COCK BLOCKING (god stop being such a good friend, protecting your friend from terrible scum bags like me)
-DON'T COCK BLOCK YOUR FRIEND (she is never going to find the love of her life if you ruin her wedding before it happens, you can be our flower girl)
-THIS IS MY GIRL GET YOUR OWN (there is a cute girl over there, go make some friends, you seem friendly and cool)
-HEY!, WHAT ARE YOU DOING, NO TOUCHY (you seem really affectionate but don't try to get her to cheat, we are getting married)

make sure the original commands, are said, loudly with dominance and authority as commands, (basically yell and scare her), then the take aways say them in a friendly nice guy tone that shows your just kidding, basically you want to scare her enough so she backs away and can't do shit, but at the same time show the target you are not serious and are just kidding around (you need confidence to pull this off well)

Very nice videos! Really I mean it. First time in my life where I just dare to open girls on the dance floor because I know that I will give her a good time being able to dance the steps I have learned in the video! Thank you!

I have a question though. Say that you want to OPEN the dancefloor, meaning you want to be the first in the room to dance, and you obviously want a girl or more girls to dance with you so you do not look like a loner on the dance floor lol. It is kinda obvious that I can not do the ''dirty'' dancing right away as it would kill her social status. How would you dance with her then? Just some slow swings and turns?

Ok a lot of people have question specially newbies about sarging alone, i will talk to you about the pros and cons and my experience through out the years (my opinion):


SARGE—1. verb: to pick up women, or to go out to try and meet women.
SARGER—noun: a person who picks up women; a member of the pickup community.



There is not a right or wrong way, it is what you are comfortable with and makes YOU happy... When i started 20 years ago kind of a chode, i wanted to hang out with guys that got women, so i experimented with different groups of guys to see how they got women, gansters, surfers, rockers, drug heads(even though i never touched drugs),preps, naturals etc... Most of them were full of shit, bull shit artist(they barely got girls). The reason i am telling you this is cause if you hang out with the wrong crowd or bs artists, it will delay your learning curve or technique; then i hung out with an african american natural named #1, hanging out with someone that was good with women cut out my learning curve by probably years and kind of change my life... After accidentally going to a party and discovering dance floor game i hung out with couple of guys that were decent(they only got girls cause they dance, no much skills)..

Here is my opinion on the advantages of sargin with guys:

1.- if they are attractive then guilt by association you will be attractive since you are with them(same tribe)
2.- if they get girls then some of those girls have friends and women have group mentality so if some of them hook up you may hook up...
3.-You look social if they are cool and like you are having a good time which is attractive.
4.- Sometimes all of you challenge each other and compete and it makes you more confident in some cases and forces you to approach and hook up.
5.- they can drive so you do not have to.
6.- You spend time with friends you enjoy and bond...
7.- If the dudes are social and good with women will help your learning curve and technique since is a live presentation of pick up, real time.

Disadvantages:

1.- If they are low statue/value whatever you call it or making mistakes in their game constantly you may get the guilt by association and you may be looked as low statue by some women.
2.- If you want to go to another club, party or you hooked up, they may bother you or not let you since you drove or they are your ride, so sometimes is decision by the group which kills some of your freedom..
3.- sometimes a bunch of guys together will have trouble going in, into a high end club, the too many dudes not good for the club syndrome..
4.- if they fight(only takes one of the members you have to jump in)..
5.- if they are limited amount of women, you may have to fight for the same women, and for a dude, for example like me, i do not compete, it may fuck with my game.
6.- ^ follow up which is a continuation of 5, when i am with a girl i do push pull, so i am aggressive sexual, then i do take away, and ignore and step back and no pay attention sometimes to raise buying temperature( if you do not agree irrelevant i am trying to make a point), sometimes while doing something like this, your friend may fucked up your game by stepping in. For what i heard some rsd people do shit like that to each other, which i think is retarded, but anyways..
7.- If they having an off night or full of negativity or they put you down, it will affect you...
8.- If they suck at getting girls or being social, you will learn bad fundamentals, bad technique etc..
9.- Sometimes envy or guys trying to high jack your success or put you down, even your friends. For example i had a friend that for years use to tell girls i was a player behind my back and i never knew it( so he can play good cop and get the girl)... Also he would try to ridicule me and make fun of me to the point i felt uncomfortable when i was learning to dance... Now that i look back he was trying to remind the top dancer.
10.- You may get girls for validation instead of chemistry to impress your friends.

So my personal opinion the best system is a bit of both, what i love is to go out ALONE, drive my own car, and have my friends at the clubs etc.. But be kind of independent, we hang out, but we are not exclusive, i do my thing without permission, and i can do my banishing act, and they do their thing... Going out alone has many advantages since women and groups of women are less intimidated to open you, specially if you dance, or if you are attractive. However if is a 2 set and you are about to fuck the other girl may feel like a third wheel, and fuck everything up, but if you have a bad wing with no game it is the same as you being alone for that left out girl.

What going out alone is not:

1.- Being antisocial
2.-Acting like you are lost and do not belong.
3.- freaking out and being inadequate cause you are alone.
4.- not knowing people in the venue(You will start knowing people after couple of times you go to the same clubs)

Hope it helps since i see at least 10 post a week about sargin alone...It is not big deal I LOVE IT! The last few weeks i have a dude that i am teaching following me around and i hate it(my results not as good as if i was alone, for the guilt by association reason), he loves it since he is improving.

Hey guys,

I am in the minority on this website when it comes to sex, I don't place it high in my life. I love sex, it is awesome it is fun, but there are things far more important than sex going on in my life. As a guy that refuses to publicize my private life to the internet I get a lot of static (criticism), on my website, on this forum, on my videos, even on my facebook fan page I've had people say that I was some loser that can't get laid. It really doesn't matter to me that much when someone has animosity toward me and says "You can't get laid." Honestly what is the obsession with needing to get laid? People around here measure your value by your sex life, does that really make sense? Don't forget you are full of shit if you don't post field reports, is the mentality.

Go over this in your head one time: What is the attitude of the guy who gets laid a lot in regards to sex? It's NO BIG DEAL, that attitude is a part of his assets when it comes to his ability to get laid. Someone who comes on here and spreads his sex life around, his closing rate, him fucking x girls in x days shows nothing but a lack of confidence and a huge ego. Why do you need to qualify for us? Who the fuck are we that it matters that you got laid x many times in x many days?

I am kind of getting just down right tired of this form of measurement in the community, so many dick measuring contests around here. One of the big reasons I don't post too often on here (in 5 years I have 1100 posts). Everyone has this obsession with the guy who gets laid the most, or being the guy who gets laid the most. The irony of all of it is your obsession with getting laid ultimately works against you, the times when I was in a dry spell were times when I was unhappy and constantly thinking about getting laid. How do I have to approach her? What should I say? Bla Bla Bla - all these bull shit thoughts got in the way of actually getting laid. Why? Because getting laid is easy, it's you that makes getting laid hard. People don't realize getting laid is more about getting out of your own way then doing all the right shit when you have good attractive traits. A woman more easily forgives a man she is attracted to when he makes mistakes throughout courtship.

Rather than worrying about getting laid and forcing things, learn to just have attractive habits (this can be tedious but worth it) and escalate - that's it. Don't worry about getting laid, forcing it and thinking about and only worrying about it won't make you happy. Define what you want and go after that, whether that is to fuck 10 girls, or 100, whether that is to find a wife, a girlfriend, or whatever else. You knowing what you want in your love life will help you birds eye everything.

Happiness thought: Do you think guy A who has fucked 1000 girls is happier then guy B with a wife, 2 kids, and a dog? It all depends on what the guy wanted, the guy who is happiest defines what he wants and goes after it. That's cool you want to fuck 50 girls whatever, but in my experiences when you are running up your numbers you aren't making yourself happier (in fact when I was going through them fast my life was way more stressful). Your actions can make you happy or not but that is up to you. My personal happiness isn't defined by the amount of girls I sleep with, it never will be, perhaps your happiness is linked to fucking 100s of women that is cool too, it's just not for me.

Two things I think a lot of people miss on here are: You obsessing with getting laid won't get you laid, and You getting laid won't make you happy.

Your belt notches don't make you "The Man" or happy. You aren't the shit because you fucked 2000 women, you aren't the man from fucking a few drunk women a week. Every fishermen knows if you go fishing every day you catch fish everyday, if you stay out until you hit your quota then you'll get your quota everyday. Similarly once you hit a certain point you can go out on any night in a metropolitan area (need options) and go get laid because getting laid isn't that fucking difficult. Obsessing over getting laid is what makes it difficult.

My next statement plays more off the fishermen thought, each fishermen has his own technique and thus the time it will work, some of us go fishing at night and some of us go fishing during the day. Just because a person doesn't go to the bar every weekend doesn't mean he doesn't get laid. Going to the club isn't the only place to pick up girls. That was another response that has happened multiple times and even recently when I was attacked on here. You probably don't even go out. What the fuck does going out at night have to do with getting laid? Not one fucking thing. SDLs are a lot more difficult than SNL no doubt but you can create a lengthy list of phone numbers and still get laid with regularity by regular every day game. You can collect "leads"(numbers) to get laid anywhere: I've got numbers at work (co-workers and customers), fast food restaurants, sit down restaurants, bus rides, airplane, and even walking down the street.

So guys stop obsessing about all the bull shit when comes to getting laid, learn some sexual escalation and tension techniques, but focus on yourself and revealing how attractive you are to others.

It's not about getting laid, or club game, or night game, it is about just being happy. Get over your numbers, get over your ego, and get over close rate. Just be happy and attractive, that will get you laid because to anyone that has gotten fair amount of tail getting laid is just NO BIG DEAL. Take on that attitude you'll be happier and more appealing to women.

I see a lot of new guys on here who are overwhelmed by the different methods out there, especially the different nuances of Mystery Method» that most guys who come to the community try to learn.

I tried those for a while when I started, but I couldn't get them to work. When I stopped worrying about the specifics, I did well. Then I went through a recent phase where I tried to get the methods down again and the same thing happened, only 1000 times worse because now I knew a lot more about the methods and details this time. When I dropped worrying about all the tiny details, I started doing a lot better.

So... instead of worrying about all those other complex methods, I'm going to go ahead and propose what I'll call "The Newbie Method." It's really bonehead simple and can get just about any guy started because it just focuses on the most fundamental aspects of pick up. This is basically what I've started doing again, myself, and it's helped me dramatically in recent weeks.

It's also, coincidentally, pretty much the same stuff that actually got most guys laid for all the millenia before there were online seduction forums.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS TO REMEMBER AT ALL TIMES!

1.) Approach.

2.) Have fun.

3.) Be your idea of a cool, normal guy.

4.) Girls are just people, too.

BODY LANGUAGE»

Practice this stuff alone and during your everyday life until it's second nature and just what you always do.

1.) Stand up straight with your feet shoulder width apart and your hands where they can be seen except in front of your face, chest, or stomach.

2.) When you sit, lean back and take up space with your arm propped on the back of the chair.

3.) No sudden moves unless you have a reason.

4.) Keep your voice relaxed and open up your throat when you speak. Avoid a high pitched or nasal tone. Speak slowly and clearly but loud enough to project and be heard easily over any background noise.

5.) Make and hold eye contact with the people you're talking to and smile warmly. Do this to anyone you pass by on the street or in your daily life, too.

THE MODEL:

This is what you actually need to remember when you go to meet girls.

1.) Approach any girls you find interesting.

2.) Talk to them like new friends.

3.) Playfully, casually try to seduce the one you like.

4.) Stay relaxed and cool in the face of unexpected, weird, or mean shit.

5.) Keep doing this over and over until something hooks.

That's really PU distilled to its most basic fundmantals.

OPENERS (always delivered while looking her in the eyes and smiling warmly):

"What's up?



"Hey! I wanted to meet you. I'm XXXX."

HOOK:

1.) "So what are you up to?"

or

2.) Any crazy, random question you can think of.

MIDGAME:

Just have fun with her (and her friends) and look for ways to keep the conversation going off what she's said. Maybe crack some jokes or tease her gently and lightheartedly. Trust your instincts and, when in doubt or when she tests you, be honest and hone up to your feelings and interest in her.

Basically, do whatever you want, just be persistent and hang on through awkward silences and awkward moments. Maintain eye contact with the girl you want and make an excuse to pull her away for a minute to talk to her alone, then sit really close to her when you get back. If she ever touches you, jokes with you, or laughs at your jokes, you're golden.

CLOSE:

Pick one:

1.) "Say, I'm going to XXXX. You should come with me!"

2.) "Well, it would be cool to hang out again sometime. Call yourself." Then hand her your phone to put her number into and save the contact. (OK, I stole that one from JohnnyC's recent FR, but I like it).

IF YOU CHOOSE #2 MAKE SURE TO ACTUALLY CALL OR TEXT HER!

WHEN TO GO FOR THE KISS?

A.) Anytime you feel confident that she likes you.

TIPS ON DEALING WITH REJECTION

1.) It's going to happen. A lot. Just like you're going to trip and fall sometimes when you walk. But you'd still never get anywhere if you didn't walk, just like you won't get anywhere if you don't approach. Don't focus on it or worry about it.

2.) Remember, if she's especially mean, she's coming off as a bitch. Are you really upset you didn't pick up some stupid bitch who treats people like that?

3.) All girls are individuals. Just because one, or the last 20, rejected you, doesn't mean the next one will. Give her a chance to show herself to you.

4.) Weird shit will happen, too. Learn to laugh at the fucked up stuff that you could have never seen coming.

STICKING POINTS:

Once you've gotten started and have put in the numbers to identify your specific sticking points, the methods and forums are here to refer to.

There. That is about all the method you need to get you started. It's up to you to actually put in the numbers, get out there, and get relaxed and used to doing this stuff.

Now go mack on some chicks and play the numbers!

New videos in learning how to dance, watch on youtube for annotations.

nice capoeira, I do breakdancing and can do a few of the tricks they are displaying. Are you the tiny dude dancing with the chick in the beginning skills lol