I agree with your last part. Things are definatly alot different outside of high school. People mature, life gets more interesting imo. And knowing this bit, that things get better after high school, use it to your advantage. Try to become more social, more confident and more approachable. Work on some "canned" lines or routines. If they fail, you never use them again. If they work, consider why. Start now and it'll become second nature after high school and you'll be having an easier time.

To answer your question about success in high school - I can't say if there is an actual definition. I can try and give my best idea though. To me, success in high school would be about finding your "niche". Whether you're a jock, a gym rat, a musician in a band, a talented singer, a party'er, a ladies man, a drama person, etc. etc. Finding what your good at and letting it shine throughout your time in high school. You'll be alot happier being in high school if you have things to look for - For me, it was the sports. I played football and basketball and couldn't wait for practice and games.

When you look at all the kids that are generally (I am being stereotypical here but in high school stereotypes are quite the norm anyway) "losers" or "unpopular" they are socially awkward for the most part. They are weird, strange, whatever you want to call them. Generally the ones that are quiet as well. The people who could stand in front of a class and present an excellent presentation were more successful, no? They were generally the more populr kids. They were less socially awkward and more confident. I think this is where PUA can come into play - You learn confidence on your journey. When you have this extra confidence, speaking in front of a class becomes easy and when you are more confident people will listen to you. Those socially awkward kids are never heard because they're never confident.

Yes, we all know Bill Gates had a terrible high school experience and is now rich as hell but I don't think this is the norm. I know a few "nerds" who have ended up doing nothing so far in their life. Why? They are socially awkward and have a difficult time communicating in daily life. I also know jocks or stoners who were popular in high school who are doing nothing with their life as well. There are those nerds who are finishing their degrees and there are those popular kids that are finishing their degrees as well.

I think finding that happy medium where you are successful in school but successful with people is the key to a good job and a better life. I also believe PUA can help one become good at both things. If you gain the confidence to talk to people you gain the edge to be confident in an interview, in a new job SPAM, and ultimately in your gain for women. I'm not going to sit here and say that studying PUA is going to turn you into a successful man making 100K a year and having sex with hundreds of women BUT I will say that you can find yourself happier or at the very least somewhat satisfied with your life.

Anyways, a bit long and I'm sure we agree more than disagree in this matter but like I said I just had an issue with the whole mentality that you should try and get by in high school. I mean, I see people on here claiming that gaming women can happen anywhere. Why not in high school?

Quite interesting because i faile high school exam year and i have to do the whole year over again, with a bunch of people i don't know at all. I,am almost 19, the rest of my class is either 17 or almost 18. I see all these girls when going night game. It definately works for the pre-selection concept because i talk to all of them and girls who i don't know notice this.

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I always sigh a little inside when I see someone about to enter the same long, tedious, and tiresome journey I have. You're starting off very pissed off and full of anger, it's not a very good way to start.

Let me ask you a serious question. Do you even want to fuck all these different women, or is it just a form of revenge you seek against the skeptics in your life? If so, just throw that junk out and walk away from it. Don't spend years trying to kill moby dick. Please don't...

As someone who just graduated high school i can say its both awesome and it sucks at the same time. The first two years of high school i couldve been considered very normal and average. I had a few good friends that i liked to hang out with and we played lots of video games and didnt go out much...however it was fun at the time and i dont regret it at all. i didnt see myself as a "nerd" because i wasnt....I was just a normal high school guy that liked to play video games with some buds. I wasnt however getting any opportunities with the girls (well girls i actually wanted), for obvious reasons.

My last two years though, I wanted something different, and I kinda lucked upon meeting a group of friends that was very active and was willing to take me under their wings. At first, I was very reluctant to go out when they invited me because everytime I would, it would be very awkward and uncomfortable. I slowly started doing more and more with them until those parties and whatnot became not so awkward. Alcohol played a big role in this also but it was still a very stressful transition period but it had to be done.

Once this started, I started getting more offers from girls who were decent but still none of the hotties i wanted. Every once in awhile i would get a long shot opportunity with one of the hot popular girls but I still had almost zero experience with girls and fucked most of these up pretty badly. But nevertheless, i finally had a crazy group of friends that i really clicked with and loved being around and it made high school a fucking blast and a half, even without women. I already miss high school and now I have to start all over with friends, which sucks when you had such a tight group of friends but its a new chapter, if i were to go to another year of high school nothing would change.

My point being, high school is what you make of it, i know its cliche but its true. If you dont like your high school experience the way it is, youre gonna have to make some shitty uncomfortable changes but its always worth it. However, from my experience stay away from dreaming about getting the popular hotties because unless you have some serious perceived status, good luck. If youre not crazy good looking, have parents who are insanely rich, host parties all the time, or are some kind of star jock etc. then Id stick with going for the quieter cute girls who might not be quite as desirable but are way more obtainable. Itll save you alot of wasted time thinking about them and being pissed off. Oh and dont try to be a player in high school unless youre one of the previously mentioned, just date girls and get experience.

So in conclusion high school can be as awesome as you make it in every aspect, except being an OG pimp with all the hottest girls. That situation sucks because of all the dynamics that drive high school. It really is a losing battle unless youre a 1%er. And when it comes to book smarts vs. street smarts, keep your grades up in school but focus more on the street smarts part of high school...itll take you farther than book smarts will in high school. Focus on book smarts in your post high school experience.

Peace,
Marky Mark

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Make it Rain

Idk if you people have the problem i have but.

There are 7 classes who are the same level as me, which means theyre all nearly same age like me.

Nobody from this school are are my type at all, I am the strongest guy, theres nobody that are stronger than me, im the only one with a sixpack, im the most ripped guy. And nobody from these 7 classes are my type at all.. Every school break im bored up hardcore with 2 girls and a guy that im with nearly all the time because the other people are boring. im trying to connect with others but its hard.

Im just thinking of taking my shirt off to get attention and throw pictures of my body on facebook. this is the "try impress method" will it be okay to do this in highschool? bcuz idk how im gonna get attention if not

Can someone give me some advice? what to do at this situation? i got low energy lvl.

Well naturally I am not in any way doing this as a form of revenge I am a very strong follower of the whole leave em better than you found em motto. I am using this more as a motivator and learning experience than a tool for reenge

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