Hi,

I would like to know your best openers in a loud and crowded clubs. I believe that the situation openers are better and it must be short...but I never know what to say...

Thank you !

I never pick up women in clubs...I've only had one successful time where a friend's girlfriend's best friend told me I was cute and we just started to dance and make out...I just got lucky that time. Go to clubs with girls, but it's pretty hard to meet people there just because it's so damn loud. I guess you can try going out in the lounge area where it's more quiet and do an opener. You can also type an opener in your phone and show it to a girl, but I've never tried it.

I've tried 'who lies more men or women?' It works well!!

You just lean on in there and YELL your opener in their ear.
Just kidding, I normally say something short and to the point to get them talking to me first. Once they lean in to hear you it's not as awkward as a cold approach in a loud club.

Me: Oh sorry! Are you in line!

Warpig.. I mean HB: (leaning in) What?

Me: Were you in line, I didn't want to cut.

HB: (leaning in) Oh, no it's ok I

Me: No? So you were trying to cut me? *Neg *Opener

HB: (swooning) Thanks for picking me up, heres my number, kiss me with your mouth open.

And BAM... you got your self a HB in a loud club.

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Most of my experience comes from hanging out at loud clubs and while I don't really have any canned openers, what I DO have is a general approach.

As the place is thumpin, there's a premium put on visual communication / cues. I try to be extra animated laughing, smiling, and dancing with my friends. The key for me is to make sure that when I'm laughing at their 'jokes' or stories, I'm really directing the laughs and looks over their shoulder / around the room to make a note of who's noticing as it shows both i) their interest and ii) who should already be somewhat disarmed as they've seen a good side of you and your convo has given you social proof.

At that point, I tend to open as they walk by / or are getting a drink near me. If they belly up to the bar and are getting a drink next to you AFTER you've already caught them watching you laugh - you're usually in with a standard opener.

Otherwise, on the walkby, they're either smiling or not,which gives the opportunity for a smile opener "Wow, you could be really cute if you learned how to smile" or "Whoa, is that smile just for me? I'm flattered!"

While the first conveys a bit more interest than I like and betrays your intent, it's also a neg and sets the stage for solid cocky / funny banter.

Anyway - this was more me summarizing my saturday night than anything. Hope it helps. Let me know what you think.

AllDay

I hate clubs that are so loud you can't hear anything. I say if you can't hear then you should go somewhere else.

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I agree to an extent, however, learning to dance well can be really, really good. I've had tons of girls hit on me just because they saw me dancing - it can be super powerful.

If you plan to frequent loud clubs often (which I really enjoy) - check out some of the 'circles' and see what you can pick up. It's how I learned to dance and I think it's an incredibly valuable skill.

I'm too young to go to any bars in the US. So I sometimes go to canada (windsor). I used to have your same problem with the noise and everything. But last time I went there I tried something out and it seemed to work. One word...PEACOCKING. In a loud club its hard to hear the other person so a good conversation is almost impossible. So instead of getting the women by ur smooth conversation skills, you have to peacock to get their attention.

Just go to the club/bar/whatever with some friends of yours and make sure that you have something on you that would stand out. Take your group to the most visible spot in the place and make sure that it looks like your group is having fun. Then just lean back enjoy yourself and let the women approach you. I did this last time and got approached by 7 women, including one that grabbed my ass lol. Just try it and tell me how it goes, its a good lesson about the importance of standing out from the crowd.

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I wish I could come out and play with you tonight, but I'm a little busy... with your girl on my lap.

lolol

ok now this could work if it was altered a lil, lets take a look at what we got here...

- ok first of u started out by saying "oh sorry." umm ok what are u sorry about again? dont ever ever ever say sorry, excuse me, or any other thing like that when opening.

- second, u really think one tiny neg like that is gonna get u a number? wheres ur iois? that wasnt even a harsh neg at all. point is that ur opener is NOT what gets u the girl.

so lets try this again, the correct way:


Me: Hey are u in line?

Warpig.. I mean HB: (leaning in) What?

Me: Were you in line, I didn't want to cut.

HB: (leaning in) Oh, no it's ok I

Me: No? So you were trying to cut me? *Neg *Opener

HB: No i wasnt in line at all...

could go anywhere from here. just run normal game from this point on.

Clubs are deffinatly one of the best places to sarge because they are target rich. Some clubs are better than others. This is where you can try the more 'out there' openers because people are more open to conversation and out for laugh. Try not to open by the dance floor as its more loud. Be aware of where the speakers are. The bar, by tiolets, seated areas, the entrance, outside areas are all good. Im always wizzing around the club so im here there an everywhere, it increases your chances of meeting more

Gentlemen!!

Let me address this. There's 2 types of clubs.

One where it's loud but where you can still carry QUICK SHORT dialogue. For this it's BODY LANGUAGE and PRESENCE. You must be smiling and dancing (remember club??) if you can't dance or look like some odd UBER NERD don't even go to the club...seriously. I usually get good responses if I'm smiling and ALREADY HAVING fun... let them enjoy your PRESENCE. You can use quick canned openers. quick. no long drawn out stupid story or i need opinions (which btw, i'm getting sooO tired of). and as you build rapport ... TWIRL THEM TWIRL THEM.. it's a club they like it. DHV stories are almost useless.

TWO the type of club where it's just FREGGGIN LOUD!!!! can't hear anything unless you have to literally YELL. almost 100% body language, in my opinion. I don't really like these clubs relatively speaking

just my opinion, take it w/ a grain of salt

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KeepNitReal

Its not that hard just saying something without speaking and do a cute laugh..

she will say what?, and if you have some kino you just start doing this again.. after 3 times you get tired and wave her to a better place:)

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Basically, the responses that have mentioned body language are on the money. I spend most my nights in loud clubs, and basically look confident, dance and most importantly, as a few people have said, look like your having fun!

Another approach I think is great on a noisy dancefloor is to go up to a target and teach her a "secret handshake". Sounds stupid, but girls love stuff like that. What I mean is - prepare a basic, but funny handshake with your sarging partner, then basically, you have a great physical opener if its too loud to speak.

laters

i hate clubs. all the bars around here are either loud ass clubs or sports bars (with no chicks in them). ive come to realize that sarging in loud clubs is very difficult and a waste of money (cover charges, drinks, coat check). lately i just go into clubs if i want to have fun and dance, and i do it totally sober too.

i would stay out of clubs if possible. try to find a bar that is more "chill" yet still has people in it.