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I am not too sure which kind of girl
At this time, hopefully after gaming,
Dating successfully ill beable to
Picture what type of girl I want in
The future which is the reason I
Am trying to learn this. As for now
I want to experiment sexually
more with diffrent types
Of girls fuck buddies if you will.
preferably physically
Attractive :p. I do have a
Standards: girls typically with
Class as in she isnt easy and dresses attractivly
Without excessive piercings and little to no tattoo
But in all i rather not stay in a full on committed
relationship right now
Since im only in high school and if i become too committed
I lose my edge
figure it out now, confidence is ''knowing'' or being ''certain''
take a guess at what is #1 on the list for most women in a man,
you don't ''know'' what to talk about? figure out if she is your perfect woman or not, and the more you find you like, you let her know, the more you don't like, the more ammo you have to tease her with, you should already know what you're looking for so that you can sort the girls that fall in line with this, and weed out the ones that don't, when you have chemistry with a girl, it's alot more genuine when you tell her so and have a long string of evidence that supports your statements and helps her rationalize
going into an interaction with, ''I don't know what I'm looking for or what I'm going to do'' is a great way to be unsuccessful, fairly difficult to complete the task at hand, when you have no idea what that task is
always ''know'' what you are doing, and what you are looking for, wether or not your strategy to get that is efficent or not yet, can always be improved upon, but for starters, clearly outline what it is you are seeking, or you will have trouble finding it and probably end up clinging to the first girl that shows you some interest even if she is not what you are looking for, simply cause you had no idea what to screen for, and this is how oneitis gets started, guy has no experience and doesn't talk to many girls, only one flirts with him, he gets attached to her, she friend zones him for being needy, it only gets worse, results = giant waste of time for guy when he could have been meeting more girls and finding out if they line up with his ideal type of girl and closing the deal with them when they do line up
have a direction you are taking things in, set up a compliance ladder and screen, find out who she is, if you like that, manage expectations, escalate the compliance, move things forward, when you run into problems that distract from the task at hand, do your best to solve them, and if they seem unsolveable, then continue on meeting more women and walking your path (completing your task at hand), constantly improving how efficently you can walk the route, and how much skill you have to your step
when ever you have a question that you want an answer to, test it out in real life a few times and see for yourself before asking someone else, so you can compare other peoples experiences to your own, and have your own idea for where you want to take things that suits you and your own path
GOOD LUCK