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PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2012 10:04 am 
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We know eachother for a long time (went to school together) , and I find her attractive now , I didn't know much about chicks , and my game was bad. So i said straight to her I like her , she said she only sees me as a friend . But before a week i called her to my place and I did everything good but nothing happened. What should I do ? Is there any help for me?
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We know eachother for a long time (went to school together) , and I find her attractive now , I didn't know much about chicks , and my game was bad. So i said straight to her I like her , she said she only sees me as a friend . But before a week i called her to my place and I did everything good but nothing happened. What should I do ? Is there any help for me?
Thanks guys.
you should meet other women, and sleep with them, and forget the idea of sleeping with this girl until the point where you can sleep with a new girl at least once a month, by that time you will understand what you have to do

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We know eachother for a long time (went to school together) , and I find her attractive now , I didn't know much about chicks , and my game was bad. So i said straight to her I like her , she said she only sees me as a friend . But before a week i called her to my place and I did everything good but nothing happened. What should I do ? Is there any help for me?
Thanks guys.
you should meet other women, and sleep with them, and forget the idea of sleeping with this girl until the point where you can sleep with a new girl at least once a month, by that time you will understand what you have to do

GOOD LUCK
I slept with one since then , but i felt bad after that. Really don't know what is happening...


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Why did you feel bad?

For me, the most reliable way to turn a friend to more than a friend is distance yourself from her for a long while and then start over. Sometimes it can be done without breaking contact but then it's usually more difficult to re-frame how she perceives you.


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Why did you feel bad?

For me, the most reliable way to turn a friend to more than a friend is distance yourself from her for a long while and then start over. Sometimes it can be done without breaking contact but then it's usually more difficult to re-frame how she perceives you.
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Well I dunno , simply felt bad ...


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Why did you feel bad?

For me, the most reliable way to turn a friend to more than a friend is distance yourself from her for a long while and then start over. Sometimes it can be done without breaking contact but then it's usually more difficult to re-frame how she perceives you.
Thanks for advice!
Well I dunno , simply felt bad ...
My Dude,
You've spend heaps of time with this girl, you feel you connected with her more then with any other girl, you feel good when you're with her, she just makes you smile and to top it all off, She's attractive.
So now you got the hots for her, you think about her alot, you kick yourself for not making a move sooner, you sleep with other girls and then feel bad about it because somewhere in your mind it seems like you've cheated on her, 'cause you don't really want other girls, am I right?

You're in the Friendzone and even if she gives you a shot right now you might get Oneitis cause you'd value her so much. Pumpington is spot on go out, go meet other great attractive ladies, get options.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2012 9:43 am 
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Well I dunno , simply felt bad ...
Try to define it more. This seems like an important issue.
Was it because the specific girl you fucked? Did you value her? Was it any good? Was it simply because it wasn't That girl. Did you feel you are betraying her?
What thoughts accompanied the bad feeling?
Was this the only girl you ever fucked? (first time sex is rarely good)


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Well I dunno , simply felt bad ...
Try to define it more. This seems like an important issue.
Was it because the specific girl you fucked? Did you value her? Was it any good? Was it simply because it wasn't That girl. Did you feel you are betraying her?
What thoughts accompanied the bad feeling?
Was this the only girl you ever fucked? (first time sex is rarely good)
I felt like betraying her ... Its the thing Dusty said , I should just quit thinking of her and meet other girls , am i right?


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I felt like betraying her ... Its the thing Dusty said , I should just quit thinking of her and meet other girls , am i right?
Sound like you have your answer. Usually they say go fuck ten other girls in situations like this. From my own experience while ten is probably an overkill, it does usually take more than one. So just keep at it and you'll see that before long you'll find yourself really into other girls and that specific girl won't seam so important anymore.


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We know eachother for a long time (went to school together) , and I find her attractive now , I didn't know much about chicks , and my game was bad. So i said straight to her I like her , she said she only sees me as a friend . But before a week i called her to my place and I did everything good but nothing happened. What should I do ? Is there any help for me?
Thanks guys.
you should meet other women, and sleep with them, and forget the idea of sleeping with this girl until the point where you can sleep with a new girl at least once a month, by that time you will understand what you have to do

GOOD LUCK
I slept with one since then , but i felt bad after that. Really don't know what is happening...
sleep with 9 more, see if you still feel the same way or are not sure of what to do to sleep with one in particular at that point

GOOD LUCK


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