Recently i have been getting a lot of questions on the differences in day game and night game. Well here is the answers.
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What up fellas,
So today i want to touch on a subject that i see debated a lot with guys. The difference between day game and night game.
I actually enjoy talking to women during the day time, and after reading this post you probably will too.
1. You get more anxiety during the day time.
Usually during the day time we over exaggerate the outcomes of a social interaction of talking to a stranger. We think, “Wouldn’t it be weird approaching someone during the day time?” “Maybe she’s busy and don’t wanna be bothered”, “What if she tells me to f*** off?”. in reality it’s no different from approaching someone in a bar or club in this sense.
In my own experience i use to think women will react horribly and be cold or rude. I have learned that women actually react better than they do during night game. This in fact is because at night they expect drunken guys to come up and try to talk or game them. It happens MUCH less during the day time, in fact a lot of beautiful women have never been approached during the day. Your confidence and willingness to take risk will automatically raise your value. The only way to overcome Approach
2. Day game involves greater social pressure and more venues to meet women.
Because of the suburban area i live in outside of D.C, my favorite place to meet women is at the malls. Of course you will find tons of HB’s shopping or just hanging out with girlfriends. The thing about day game is you have to be social calibrating. Be aware of the situation and surroundings. The biggest thing is to be aware of social pressure. The more people can listen to your interaction with a women, the higher the social pressure will be. Typically the girl will feel uncomfortable with this. In high social pressure situations the job is a little harder. Don’t go to direct, in these situations when there is a crowd of people around or etc, i prefer to go indirect. Although you can go direct but you may wont to tone down the directness of it. For example, if i am at a mall and i see a girl i want to talk to walking and she is away from crowds(isolated already) this is the perfect opportunity to approach and it will be easier to go direct since the social pressure is low. Now lets change-up the situation, if she is walking and there is a bunch of people around her, this will increase the social pressure, and if you go too direct it will draw a lot of attention to the interaction since people can hear what you are saying. Typically people don’t like “all eyes on them” , and this may cause the girl to be uncomfortable even if you have solid game. In this situation its best to go with “Hey, i gotta ask you a quick question….” or ” Excuse me, i just need a female opinion on something…..” You get the point. This is my strategy in these situations and works very well. Always remember this..The strongest frame always wins. If you are relaxed calm, she will also feel relaxed and calm. Remember “states” are contagious. If you want to stop a moving set get their attention, plant yourself, and wait for them to stop. If they don’t stop don’t follow behind them. This will look creepy. Usually i use a friendly “Excuse me, real quick…” to get people to stop. This way i politely ask for her attention and set a false time constraint by saying “real quick”.
Works magic, try it out it’s almost 100% guarantee the girl will stop. My buddies asked me how i always get girls to stop for me…this is how.
3. HB9′s and 10′s are easier to open during the day time.
Usually in clubs in bars HB9′s and 10′s get hit on all night(even though most guys game is weak..its a huge ego boost to have guys hitting on her all night and has the same effect as far as confidence boost as a guy hitting on her with game. There is a reason why she gets hit on more in a club..ALCOHOL. This usually starts happening when everyone has had a few drinks. During broad day light being sober, the chances of her being approached by a guy is lower than 5%. Most guys a scared of the 9′s and 10′s walking down the street. You will be surprised at how many will turn and say “Oh my God, that’s so nice of you, no one has ever stopped me on the street to say that!”Happens to me all the time. Often it takes women by surprise when this happens, with the emotions being spiked by the surprise if you run through the interaction right this will turn into a positive for you.
4. Take Action During Day Game
Procrastination is the worlds greatest sin. Don’t wait till tomorrow, next week, do it today! You will realize once you get into a few day time sets you will begin to excel and break through that barrier.
Day Game Newbie exercise
Day game can be scary at first. Here’s a few tasks to ease you into it if you’re having trouble. These tasks are progressively harder, but will demonstrate to you that people are a lot friendlier and pleasant in the daytime than you might expect. Rather than complicate it with group sets at this point, start off with women who are by themselves.
• Ask 5 beautiful women, “Excuse me, do you know what the time is?”
• Ask 5 beautiful women, “Excuse me, do you know where the nearest coffee shop is?
• Ask 5 beautiful women, “Excuse me, do you know where the nearest men’s fashion store is? [She replies]. Oh thanks, I’m trying to get some new shirts. You’re very well dressed, do you have any tips for me?”
• Tell 5 beautiful women, “Excuse, I just saw you walking past and I thought you were really cute, I had to stop and say hello. How are you?”
Do this and you will begin to break through the barrier, and check out some of my articles on comfort and transitioning.
Sluggler
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