Hey,
Ive been using a line whats seems like forever and that almost always work (Id say 95% the time) : lets just call it "The skinny and chubby arm theory".
Now that move has two points, first you get to touch the girl for longer than 2 secs withouth feeling creepy. Second, you're giving the girl a compliment wich makes her feel more comfortable.
This move comes after openers, preferably when you've isolated her (can be done with friends around, just make sure none of her friends have chubby arms or you gonna hurt feelings and might get kicked out of the group). Anyway's, here is how it's done :
Jae : You know, there's something weird about you
Girl : Huh ? Thats not nice, what are you talking about ?
Shes a little taken aback and thinking thats ur not such a nice guy afterall : Good thats the goal, two steps forward, one step back is the idea.
Jae : No, dont get me wrong, you look good, actually it really feels like you have a very elegant body and I can bet you that you dont need to go to the gym 20 hours a week to keep it that way, right ?
Girl : well thats right, I go only 2 hours/I dont go/I used to go but I dont anymore, etc.
We dont really care whats the answer here, but nobody goes 20 hours a week to the gym anyway, you know that, but by stating it about her she might feel like you getting to know her.
Jae : And you know why ? Because you got skinny arms
Girl : Huh? (thinking : what the fuck is he talking about)
Jae : See, Ive noticed that good looking and shaped up girls like you (that compliment is not always needed) either have skinny arms like you do or chubby arms, let me show you : at that point GRAB HER ARM WITH ONE HAND (be delicate though). You see that part here is really skinny (you gotta show the upper part : elbow, biceps, triceps) when with a lot of girl it looks more chubby. The thing is, that part cannot really be thinned away in a gym like the rest of woman body, so thats the only part of a body that can tell away real thin girl from fakes and how a girl is going to turn out later. Girls with the chubby arms are usually on a constant diet and do a lot of sports to be able to keep up the good looking body. But once they've settled down with a husband and get kids they just get fat.
But not you, you will keep looking great as you get older. Take Jennifer Anniston, shes like 40, shes looking great right ? Well whenever you see her on TV, take a look, at the arms skinny as it gets (ROLL YOU HAND OVER HER ARM THEN RELEASE).
Now you probably have girlfriends, not as good looking as you are, that have been on diet, right ?
Once again here, stating the obvious
Girl : Yes, a few of them
Jae : How did it go for most of them ? I bet you that once they stopped, the gain back some of what they lost (obvious again but she wont notice)
Girl : Well, yes
Jae : Next time you see them, you just have a look at their arms.......
Ok, you can elaborate some more but thats rough material, that conversation is usually between 30 sec and 2 mins tops. But it achieves a few points :
1. Thats a good 10 to 30 secs kino if you elaborate
2. You're telling her subconscious quite a few things :
a. She will never get fat
b. Shes looks better than her girlfriends
c. When she turns 40 she will look like Jennifer Anniston
And because those are indirect compliments they actually carry some weight (whereas something like : "whoah, you look like Jennfier Anniston" is really too forward and get you nowhere).
3. The girl agreed with you 3 times in the conversation (and 3 times by stating the obivous on your part) wich is building what I call a "Chain of Yes" (more on that later, but the goal is that more shes agrees with you, the more difficult it will be for her to say no at the end).
Jaeron
