Hey!

Me and my ex were together for like 3 years, before she kissed another dude. I broke up. After some time, mainly during this summer, we started hang out together and started getting sexual again. Then she revealed to me that she got herpes on her vag and I always found excuses to not do anything sexual after that.

First and foremost I was stupid to get sexual with her again. But it´s because of this fucking forum that I have developed to become a girl-magnet lately lol. And my ex is really hot.

Anyways, now that she has got herpes I guess I shouldn´t risk it? Adding to the fact that she cheated on me, I shouldnt even bother to talk to her at all, even though we are in the same social circle?

So my plan now is to ignore her in real life and over the internet, except saying "hi" and "how are you?". I shouldnt want to have anything to do with her anymore, shouldnt I?

Harsh?

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Yea quite a bit. Let's look at this from a different perspective. First off, was she just playfully kissing a guy or full on making out because you might have over reacted there. Secondly herpes is bad you should have her treated for that but you could still at least get a little sexual. Honestly it doesn't sound like you have a big problem here but you're making it one. Just think of her as another number in your body count instead of an ex and I assure you you'll see it in this way

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Not at all! My opinion is a bit different from Jimsonator11 and of course, it is MY opinion. Cutting people like that off from your life saves you valuable time and space for finding someone else

cutting an ex off is the best thing you can do if you have no intention of ever having sex or getting back with them. i dont see the point unless you ended on friendly terms

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The best thing to do with Ex's is just leave them as an Ex and thats the best thing! However in your case, she has kissed someone after you have being in a relationship for 3 years! This I would say is pretty light, I mean think about long term relationships, she will know that you have wanted to things with other girls and it will be the same for her and boys so she could have done much more damage! The same happened to me, my ex kissed someone, we had a good week of me being a bit off with her but then I realised that it's no biggie and I let it know that if it happened again she was gone! However the herpes thing would be enough to make me not got back with her ahaa but I wouldn't ignore her. I'm guessing you two will both know each other more than others know yourself and her because of the three year relationship so just chill out a bit with her and get her treated!

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