I get the whole stage thing, but the thing is just because we went thru a stage and even grew/grow out of it, it doesn't mean its not part of us or shape who we are. And I don't think we ever really grow out of those stages but more grow upon them if you will and such those stages we went thru will always exist in us and such something in our lives may spark them more in away to relive or visit that stage in our life again.

But if you read what I posted again Skills you will see my post was more directed to girls that visit clubs often, not as much to the girls that go to the clubs a couple times a year but more those that go like once a week. And I also said this doesn't hold true for all girls meaning for girls that visit clubs often as well as people do change and evolve. But as I mention just because they had a club/party stage does not mean at some point they want to go back to it even if just to visit it in some manner.

It was actually her ex, who she is supposedly madly in love with and is moving across the country for in less than a month. I told her it was an emotional relationship but she wants to make it work with him so badly. All of her friends are telling her she's making a mistake but she's nuts. She actually texted me today and said that I didn't take the time to dive deeper into her past like this guy did (why she started smoking pot, etc) and she claims that she has never known true happiness than when she's talking to him. My behaviors did not change, trust me on that. Even though I'm only 21, almost 22, I really have a good grasp on reality and who I am as a person. I actually talked to her on the phone today and went through the cube routine with her. Half way through she asked me where it was going so I stopped and explained everything to her (first time doing the cube) and she said I was spot on. Shit works, guys. You are all awesome.

seduction 101, David d attraction is not a choice, and women are not logical... Her friends telling her not to be with the dude, actually helps the other dude... The cube lol, there are better ways to make emotional connections that cube stuff is pretty weak imo... And you are chasing by the looks of things, she already knows she got you by the balls, the other dude is the challenge. Two members warped mindless and sexaddict911 use a lot of emotional connections, follow some of their stuff...

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I'm actually no longer really chasing her. I'm just trying to get her to realize the big picture. I have actually noticed the "challenge" thing you speak of because I went an entire day when she broke up with me of not talking to her and I got multiple texts from her that day. One actually said that I "lost her forever" and that I wouldn't " hear from her again." 30 minutes later I heard from her again. It's shitty to know its all a game but I guess it is what it is. It's totally true: women want what they can't have and have no interest in what they can have. I also only did the cube to show her that anybody can peg a person with just a small amount of information. It worked. I got her easily, granted I know a great deal about her.

I think majority of women especially in urban areas are down to cheat.That being said, I also believe there are some girls who are so socially conformed to hate cheating (especially if the girl has been hurt in the past by cheating ). These particular women will refuse to let themselves be put in a situation where they might be tempted to cheat. The drawback to this is, these girls who are loyal are often found having lower self esteem and neurotic behavior as well.

Well, it could be a Southern Florida thing. When I lived on South Beach a monogamous relationship was the exception, not the rule. Everyone was just too much into that party mode.

What it really comes down to is how strong your frame is, how nonreactive you are, and the ability to not take her for granted.

I've noticed most women who cheat are lacking something from their boyfriends. Usually it is just a rut that the relationship has gotten into and her man has started to take her for granted. Maybe she has put on a few pounds as well and no longer feels as sexy as she once did?

Sometimes when I'm out at the bar I'll be talking to a gorgeous woman while one or more guys just hover around. Then when I have to go off to the bathroom these guys will suddenly grow a pair and start hitting on the woman I was talking to. I'll come back and chill while they are talking for a bit and then run something like a bf destroyer.

Other times when I'm with a date/gf out at the club I'll encourage her to flirt with other guys to get them to buy her drinks and then it comes back to us as our own inside joke.

My rules in a relationship are:

1. Everyone's human and can make a mistake. With time, assuming she's truly remorseful, I can forgive.
2. Two mistakes shows intention. See ya.
3. If you can't connect with me on a mental level, you have to be loyal. I prize loyalty highly.
4. If she knows/feels she's going to cheat ahead of time, just break up with me. I hate to be made to look foolish.
5. If she does cheat she had better not bring back any STDs. That just adds insult to injury.

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Of my first post, stating you can "get fucked in the ass". You claim this is a "bitchy passive aggressive statement. And your solution to stop a girl from cheating is to "take her on trips" - right.. Makes sense to reward bad BEHAVIOUR, by using "trips" as a preventive counter measure? Hate to break it to you, guys who take there gfs on trips, still get there gf's stolen by men with higher status. I envision this keyboard jockey spending over 5k on a girl before even making anything "official" - in which he will take on a VERY AFC beta-provider role (as he's already formentioned by saying he would "take her on a trip" to prevent cheating.. Idiot), then within the first year a guy who understands how relationships actually work, will steal his girl, he will be over invested, and hopefully will turn to learning actual game, instead of being an idiot.

Go fuck yourself.

Sincerly,
Confidence.

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lol! he was quoting me, he is against going on trips with her... My reasoning of going on trips with women, is in my personal experience, most girls married and with bf, traveling... As soon as i get that inside info. They are done(i fuck them)... Dj point is a valid one, you do not want to come across as insecure/controlling, but you can brainwash them without coming across controlling and insecure. A good seducer influence people without people knowing they are being directed to an outcome. Just like a good salesman make the client think the buying idea was all along the buyer.

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At some point you are going to have to trust them to be by themselves, if you can't then why be in the relationship? Yes there be a chance that they cheat, but if they are smart they won't put themselves in a spot to cheat. Girls that do are looking to cheat anyway so you might as well break up with them if they are putting themselves in a position to cheat.

I just came across the following article "The recipe for happiness? An enduring marriage and an affair with lots of sex" http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relationship ... f-sex.html

Very interesting comparison of mariages success, cheating, etc.
UK & US people are said to be under the most pressure on this topic. And their mariages are the less succesfull with high divorce ratio. Compare this to north Europe countries, where people are able to speak openly about their "affairs".

Not trying to convince anybody, but relationships, exclusivity, etc vary greatly and may be worth a second thought...

Enjoy

I disagree that every woman cheats because anytime you right every there will be exceptions with humans.

There are a few people who believe vasopressin relates to someone and monogamous behavior but they are still just theories based off of the monogamous creature Prairie Voles (though initial studies look promising). Some people maybe chemically more likely to cheat.

Studies show women who were in a relationship with a man they felt were funny or witty were considered more happy in their relationship and less likely to cheat. (It's in Richard Wiseman's book 59 Seconds)

Of the relationships that I have witnessed the only one where they were happy and enjoying the relationship is where the women and men flirted like they were younger and fresher, not stale, gave each shit and what not. The woman looks at him like he is the only man in the world. There is something about a guy that can keep a woman monogamous, that is he making himself that guy, that awesome guy you mention.

I have women who constantly compare other men to me as a gauge, not so good a gauge because I make them smile, I flirt, make them feel sexual, sex, etc. I admit it is a hard trait to gain but it is certainly worth gaining it. Believe it or not a lot of a woman cheating is the man's fault in a lot of ways, yeah some woman just love sex with many men and thus cheat but if you can keep a woman sexually satisfied, makes her smile, get her to have fun, True Core Confidence, etc. you can keep her addicted to you. You just have to be "The Man".

Do I think a woman I date would cheat? It certainly depends on the girl but me having a great understanding of body language and people I can normally tell if a person has deceptive body language. I would very much doubt any woman I chose to date would cheat on me but I certainly understand the need for sexual satisfaction, she's got to get it somewhere. She needs sex like you need sex, don't act as if she won't go find it when she ain't getting it, we do, why wouldn't they? I've noticed something if I'm the best fuck she has ever had, she won't be looking else where, why give up your best fuck for a likely just decent sexual experience? It could and has happened but it is far less likely.

Just my thoughts...

Peace and Love,

Vic

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