I was at walmart, and the past month or two theres this cute blond I wanted to meet. I usually see her running off in the distance, stocking clothes or something and never had the time to meet her until today.

I met her by the vacuum cleaners, first thing I did was check for a ring and saw none[because of the distance never saw the fingers before]. So I asked were is x item I need some. When I looked into her eyes and started to talk to her, I lost complete interest and felt very scared to be near her. I was completely turned off by her and was not interested in her. I know she is white, and quite white at that, this could be fixed with some sun tanning but that wasn't it. I just felt this urge to get away from her, non-attracted to her once I met her. I never had this happen and have no clue what it was.

I had my thoughts of what I was going to say next, how I was going to talk to her, but I just lost it after I started the first 10 seconeds of talking to her. I couldn't find her attractive.

Has anyone had this happen to them?


I did see some 8.5 or so 28-35year old [I know right?] very tanned and toned, butt looked like an olympic swimmer woman, workout hotpants skintight, was like wtf? no ring also...


I been on a mission to talk to one or more! women when I go out and shop/hang out. I do, and its working but its hard finding myself attractive to a woman lately, and I know they wear loads of make up to make things worse.

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It is not AA that scares me or affects me anymore, its leading a conversation forward and keeping her interested. AA is nothing.

? anyone

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It is not AA that scares me or affects me anymore, its leading a conversation forward and keeping her interested. AA is nothing.

One of two things happened:

1) You talked to her and something about her triggered severe unattraction in your subconscious, like maybe her voice or the fact that when you got up and close to her, you realized she isn't as pretty as you thought. You mentioned the pasty skin tone, maybe that was it.

2) You were scared so shitless that as a defense mechanism, your brain told itself that she isn't attractive so you wouldn't try to force yourself to continue things with her.

Yeah I agree with Snarg.

Also:

1) You may have set your expectations of her to be too high and when you finally met her you noticed that apart from her looks she doesn't have much else going on?

Or..
2) You prefered the chase and perhaps that after you met her, your subconscious told you that she would actually be easy to get and it made you lose interest.

Just my opinion.