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if you meet a girl, and you find her very attractive, and shit is all glorious and going amazing, escalate

if you don't screen, you won't know, and a phone number means less, when she is less invested
Read this. Over and over. Until you can quote it word for word.

You blew it the moment you sent her that first text. Your first moment of contact should of been when and where you plan on meeting her (excluding idle chit chat), via phone call.

If that doesn't satisfy you. Wait a week. then do what I just said.


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if you meet a girl, and you find her very attractive, and shit is all glorious and going amazing, escalate

if you don't screen, you won't know, and a phone number means less, when she is less invested
Read this. Over and over. Until you can quote it word for word.

You blew it the moment you sent her that first text. Your first moment of contact should of been when and where you plan on meeting her (excluding idle chit chat), via phone call.

If that doesn't satisfy you. Wait a week. then do what I just said.
Thanks v00owen, I know my text was not great. But If I understand what that sentence means, I escalated as much as I could based on the situation and if you have read my last post about what happened between me and her, She invested as much as she could too.

The thing confused me is that in many threads ppl suggest to escalate through texting a little and then go for asking out. That's what I wanted to do. Since based on situation I didn't spend enough time with her and asking out in first text might not have worked as well.

I approached more than 1000 hbs in 2 years and this hb given me the highest attention and IOIs based on her quality. I am not going to cry if she doesn't respond me. But this is my sticky point now and I really want to get somewhere from this point.


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By escalate through texting I assume you mean comfort building.

You didn't need to do that since she was already opened up to you and receptive from when you first met her, she was interested (She stayed and talked, and was the one to ask for your number). You could of just called her up (or text if you really wanted to) and arranged a meet up. She probably went home thinking "Wow I met a great guy, I hope he invites me out sometime soon" but instead all she got was some random text messages that have no meaning!

Those texts you sent were awful. I'm just being honest. You just came across as creepy and uninterested in her. Not one of them invoked a reply, apart from the skittles one, which should never be used. You have to remember these text examples you read on here are not for any random person to use and great results shall fall upon him. It worked for the guy who said it because that would of been his personality.

Forget all the bullshit that you've read about texting, its there for when calling is not an option, comfort can be built 10x faster by phone call.

All is not lost, stop with the silly games, call her and tell her you want to see her.


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By escalate through texting I assume you mean comfort building.

You didn't need to do that since she was already opened up to you and receptive from when you first met her, she was interested (She stayed and talked, and was the one to ask for your number). You could of just called her up (or text if you really wanted to) and arranged a meet up. She probably went home thinking "Wow I met a great guy, I hope he invites me out sometime soon" but instead all she got was some random text messages that have no meaning!

Those texts you sent were awful. I'm just being honest. You just came across as creepy and uninterested in her. Not one of them invoked a reply, apart from the skittles one, which should never be used. You have to remember these text examples you read on here are not for any random person to use and great results shall fall upon him. It worked for the guy who said it because that would of been his personality.

Forget all the bullshit that you've read about texting, its there for when calling is not an option, comfort can be built 10x faster by phone call.

All is not lost, stop with the silly games, call her and tell her you want to see her.
Thank you so much man for the help, it was always a confusion for me how to handle this part of the game. I think based on my personality and how I interact with hbs, I should text less and call more but My accent is a little bit of problem sometimes on the phone that makes me nervous. lol Anyways,I'll go out for other hbs but I won't leave this chick.
My plan is to call tonight(or maybe tomorrow night. What do you think?) and if she answers , that's cool. If not I won't leave voice mail and I'll go for text later again.


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Call whenever you want, I just recommend you do it while your kind of busy so you cant spend much time on the phone, you don't want to seem like you have nothing else to do.

Use some callback humour (something that you teased her or talked about that you can say) e.g. "Hey barbie" if she likes to dress up. anything really to just make it more comfortable. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/callback-humor/
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We talked about where we are from and since I am not native, she told me she loves my country and wants to travel there and we talked about traveling etc... for a while.
something from this maybe.

When she answers don't think of it to serious, just be in the mindset of your testing her to see if she is fun to talk to, then invite her out if so.
If she doesn't answer its up to you, forget it or leave a voicemail.

If you decide to leave a voicemail make it something open ended for example:
"Hey HB, There was this this really important thing I wanted to ask you but.." and hang up.
Or something fun. here's a good example view-next-topic-vt12946.html?view=next

You don't have to follow what I said I just put it in case you needed some ideas :)

Let us know how it goes.


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Thanks vOOowen.
I called her last night as I expected no response. I didn't leave any voice mail. But the funny part is her voice on voice mail really turned me on lol.
I learned my lesson.Also as I said, I am going after other chicks but I won't leave her alone until she tells me fuck off and don't call.
BTW, I can say generally she was attracted by my look and physical appearance. I am not a 10 but I easily stand out in the crowd in bar. I just said it to let you know guys what was her main attraction toward me.
Keeping that in mind, what would be the best move now?
I was thinking of texting her and telling her my true feeling. I think she might appreciate it as being honest and bold about my feeling and it could stand me out . something like:
"Hey XXX,to be honest, I found you a sweet genuine girl and I was happy last weekend because of meeting you. We should meet sometime this weekend."
Something that makes me and her special.You guys know better than me...
I don't care about looking needy in her eyes.Since she thinks I have a lot of options because of what I did while being with her .
But I think the best way to recover now is triggering her emotions toward me something romantic and different.
Any help appreciated,


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You'll only seem needy if you ARE actually needy, forget what it sounds like.

It's down to you whether you still want to pursue this or not, but this is a lesson learnt for next time, remember you can't convey tone by text so if you weren't making obscene jokes when you met her then texting them will confuse her on what kind of guy you are.

I would just wait until you see her again and joke about it


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So I sarge alone and I usually go to a specific neighborhood.
Last night, I saw a group of hbs which 4 of them were extremely cute. I realized they are talking about me and looking at me. I approached them and they are all responsive and open to my approach.
So after a while I saw my target's friend for the second time. Damn!
It turns out they are her friends. She was not so cool and friendly to me this time. she told me my target hb is on a vacation.I think she told my target hb about me and what I do(approaching hbs) and exchanged info about me.
Anyways, if I had the chance to hang out with these hbs and get one , it would be a great experience.


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You have nothing to worry about, in fact this is an improvement on your situation.
It shows you don't really care if she answers to your calls/texts she's the one missing out. You were out having fun and noticed the group of hbs checking you out so you went to see if they were any fun to hang out with. She missed her chance.

Anyway since these hb's are friends with your previous target's friends (who from your first post didnt enjoy you talking to her) you will have to put some time into befriending her, if you see her again, just show her your out enjoying yourself and not just (approaching hbs).


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Well, these hbs that I saw were top notch.They look really cute classy blonds with no make up and they seem to be rich and most importantly they seem to be friendly.
I approached 3 times to their sets( I didn't know they are the same set) in different nights and every time I saw new hb 9 and 10.Definitely they are GF material.
I think I found the gold mine. If I could get one of them, I think my worries about this part of life is going to be over for a long time. But I don't think I get ...lol


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