This girl and I who are going to the same college come this fall have met once and we talked a good bit, and that resulted in a lot of texting and online messaging since X-mas. We used to talk a ton (like literally all day) or send long ass messages and emails and stuff to each other. I think she definitely wanted the d initially, but we don't live close so that wasn't really an option. As we talked and talked, I'm not sure if we got friendzoned, but we will be starting up college next week.

Before she said she'd be able to beat me in a game of bowling, which I disagreed with so I said lets go one day when school starts up to which she agreed where the loser would buy coffe. However, she just went out to get coffee with her guy friend close to home (she lives a good 15-20 hrs from me btw) which she brought up when I mentioned coffee. I said girls are really lucky getting free stuff from guys and she said i bought it myself its not a date, to which I replied well get ready to buy me coffee (after she loses) to which she said- ours isnt a date either to which I said- i never asked you, way to reject someone when they didnt even ask [thinking back could probs said something a little better here]

Anyway- any advice on if I should go on this and how to turn it sexual/get her to want me? And if she texts me during the move in weekend or whatever to meet up should I fake business/something else to make myself seem unneedy (cat/string?)

there is alot of distance between the two of you.
dont say "girls are really lucky getting free stuff from guys" because it implies that you do this. if she mentions another guy than say cool, then use push/pull, push by saying you are going somewhere with a girl friend of yours this creates attraction.
I think you did not build enough attraction, also did you kino at all in comfort. also dont let this girl be important, walk away.

Thanks man. When I saw her for the one time, we hugged (she went in for it) but as I only saw her once for a few hours, I couldn't really kino her. Think it would be best for me to just not text her wait for her to come to me and say I'm busy hold on a couple times to see if she really wants me and play up some cat string?