Hey

I do daygame and I have done it for like 3 weeks. I was not terrible to begin with because I have a good confidence and social competence. So I approach 8-10’s and get numbers 60% of the time. However, 3 times in a row now the girl has accepted to go take a coffee, and then the same day that we are supposed to meet all 3 of them have cancelled with lame excuses like “I don’t feel like getting into something right now” or “my Ex troubles me and I don’t want to bring you into it because you seem so perfect” bla bla. I send her back like "im not trying to marry you, it's just a coffee". So I haven’t gotten a single date yet because 3 out of 3 who agreed to meet cancelled.

I know it’s a tough question, but do you guys have any ideas what I could be doing wrong?

Here is how I do my daygame:
I approach her direct by giving her a compliment, she stops, smiles and we greet. I ask her what she is up to and a few other questions. I make her laugh during the interaction but without being a clown. We talk for about 5 minutes and usually the girls are interested and asks me a lot of questions aswell. I don’t do a lot of Kino and the conversation is kind off basic/fun. I tell her we should meet up for coffee sometime and that we should exchange numbers. She types in her number and I give her a hug and we say our goodbyes. The day after I text her something that makes her smile and we send 2-3 texts to each other before I ask here “How about coffee tomorrow or the day after?”. She agrees and then cancels

We meet people at various stages in their life.

Some of them just broke up with their ex. Some are troubled by work.

There's probably not much you can do about it because some girls simply won't go on a coffee, no matter what you do. You shouldn't be bothered too much about it - just move on.

I don't believe that's the case here. 3 out of 3 and all using same type of excuses is too much to be a coincidence. Im a very kind and genuine guy, which has been my problem with the girls for a long time as they see me as a friend. I think that could be the problem here...

I'm trying to get a better understanding of what your doing/saying in order to try get the bigger picture.

When you talk to women during the initial meet, when she gives you answers do you relate yourself to those answers in some way?

Stuff like:
"I'm from Paris" - "Oh, I've been Paris before, it’s beautiful this time of year..." then *DHV story about Paris*

Can you say you make a connection with these women and have a lot of rapport going with each other?

If that’s not the issue (I mean, you did get their number afterall), it could be to do with your text messages, can you give any examples of what you say?