Who does it regularly?

I've had good success in bars. In fact, i prefer to be solo at bars. I've been more successful sitting at a bar any striking up conversations with the bartenders (who turn into wingmen/wingwomen) and women walking up to a bar than any other place.

With clubs, it's different. There's no conversation with the bartenders when it's so loud you can barely hear yourself talk. If you're by yourself and you're not talking to anyone, it just seems odd. For those of you who go to clubs solo, what are your thoughts on this?

It can work as well as bars. But clubs are more physical and less about talking. If you don't like to dance then clubs are pretty pointless.

Here are some club tips I found:

http://romancecheater.com/strategies-fo ... ightclubs/

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Ive hit the bar alone before n liked it but nvr a club

I'm new to PUA but the phone# I took so far are from coffee shops or bars.
It's too loud in the clubs. I have to work on my body language and I don't dance average.

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I do the club scene solo some nights. Generally I always try and get a wingman or a female friend along simply in order to visibly demonstrate acceptance by others to the girls I'm going to try and shift, but I can't always get a wing out and I'm comfortable pulling alone too.

Now, for me it's probably a bit easier, because I happen to work in the bar trade, which means any given night I am going to know most of the staff and a few locals, so I can almost always DHV in that way early on which lets me progress easily with targets.

There is no denying that truly cold game is harder than merging through different sets from a base of legitimacy already. What I'd say is consider stocking up on girl's numbers during the week (day game for example), and arrange to meet one at the start of the night in the club. Even if you can't score her, you can use her as a platform to DHV whilst you're flagging yourself up to the other girls in the club.

My advice - smile/chat/joke/dance with potential targets very early in the night, and specifically, in a context where it appears you're not on your own. If you've got a reasonably fit girl with you already, that demonstrates higher value and, if you approach them later on your own, will make it seem like a golden opportunity for them.

Schweff the club scene alone by all means, but make sure that within a few hours you've made some new friends or found someone you know. Don't be one of the AFCs powerwalking around the dancefloor at 2am desperately looking for girls. They are there every night (watch next time you're clubbing), they never pull, they've got no game and it's just tragic. The early bird gets the worm - by the time the dancefloor is full of desperate sweaty loners, you need to have got properly in with a set, mixed or otherwise, and should be moments from taking your target home with you.

I very much agree with Dostoeschweffsky on this one, I also work the bar scene and you'd be amazed how much DHV you get just from walking into a bar/ club you frequent regularly.

Seeing as you aren't in the industry it can make it harder but all you need to do in my opinion is start growing your base of aquaintances in and around your hunting grounds.. Start bantering the doormen when you step out to the smoking area, chat to the bartenders when they're not too busy, lock into other regulars and introduce.. Now you don't need to befriend these guys too much.. think this is part of the long game, after a couple weeks you should be fairly well known in your haunts and so when you are out sarging some lucky ladies you're guna find DHV crawlng out the woodwork when you bump into the people who share your enjoyment of this particular bar/ club. Use you're game to earn the love of your unknowing wings And always remember, even if you aren't with friends in the club use time constraints saying you have to get back to 'em... No one likes a code-5 clinger!

And good grief seriously check out the packs of AFC's on the dancefloor from 2 onwards Dostoeschweffskys got it right it is rather upsetting to witness and you can use it as a motivational tool; "I will never be those guys!"

Go forth and fuck shit up man!

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Seriously, fuck it.. Rock what u got even if its clicking your fingers and crossing your feet... If you rock it with confidence you got it made. Unless you're hitting on one hell of an ice queen....

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