I met this hot girl (who I really didn't think I had a chance with) the other night (Friday) and after getting loads of IOI's from her I decided to not push things and be a bit arrogant and maybe dismissive of them (cat string theory) as I knew that she was coming out to the same place the following night and so was I!

So the following night came along and to start with I adopted the same approach from the previous night and then slowly started giving her IOI's too, this made her more and more determined and she started making moves on me! It got to the point where I was at the bar she came and stood next to me and whispered in my ear 'can you put your arm around me and pretend that you are my boyfriend as that guy over there keeps trying it on' I wasn't too sure what to do so I went with it and put my arm around her.
The night then went on and I continued the same as I did the first night and she got more and more persistent and then I cracked and kiss closed her as we left the bar. It was then decided that we (me, my mate, the girl and her married female friend) should go back somewhere and carry on with night so we went back to my mates house where we chatted and I got to know her better and I felt I made a real connection with her and got the impression she felt the same, we then kissed before we both went home and she said to add her on Facebook!

So the next day comes and I leave it for a while before finding her and adding her at around 2pm the next day. I then decided to send her a message and they read as follows.

ME
Hey, had a really good time last night i hope you did too. We should do it again sometime? x

HER
Yeah great night!! I'll be back!! Well have to have another big one!!

ME
'That club' one night would be good, haven't been there in ages and i know how much you love it!  Do you fancy meeting up next week sometime if you have time?

HER
I'm back at home all of next week in afraid... Won't be in (where i live) until mid August...
But We should do 'that club' when I get settled!!

ME
Ah thats a shame  have fun at home and i'll see you soon! Here's my number 07_________ let me know when your free and we'll catch up then! x

'that club' is a club that she mentioned in conversation that I also know about and we both said we liked. I've also left out where I live as I kind of want to keep this private


Ok so its now Tuesday and I'm not sure what to do and I kind of wish I had left myself with a bit more to go on rather than leaving her to contact me!
So do I contact her again, and if so what do I say?
Or do I leave it play it cool and hope that she contacts me either mid August or before then?
Or do something else?

I basically want to meet up with her again when she moves back (mid August) but also kind of want to keep in contact with her in the meantime via Facebook or another means and keep building on where I have gotten already. It's also her birthday in a few days and I'm not sure what to do there either.

Any help/suggestions would be hugely appreciated, I'm just not very good with this whole thing as I've never been on a date and never had a girlfriend before and have only started getting results thanks to advise from people and using what I've learnt from all the brilliant people on this forum!

Cheers
Pr0d1Gy

Sorry I know I probably asking too many questions but the girl in question is on Facebook chat now and I'm not sure whether I should say hi or leave it as I'm still waiting for a reply from my last message (although I left it with no reason to reply which I now regret) any thoughts?

Pr0d1Gy

P.s I'm not after this girl just to get laid, i think she's girlfriend material!

Ok so, i've now read lots of other stuff and worked out what to do/not do I think.

So I sent her another message which went like this.

ME
Hey Pumba, I got home from work today and my little sister was watching the lion king..... I can see the resemblance now!

HER
You fucker
How was work??

HER
Lol, it was good thanks, mega busy! Wish I was on holiday too!

I remembered that her friend said she had a nickname and it was the character from the lion king called pumba so i played on this and used it as a cocky funny neg, which kind of worked. She has now asked me a boring question which i've tried to dodge by kind of negging her again as she is a school teacher and is currently on holiday!

Any suggestions where to go from here? I need to keep things alive over the next couple of weeks until i can see her again, as long as i'm around the same position i am now in 2 weeks time, i'll be happy!

Cheers
Pr0d1Gy

Ok so I really need some help/advise on this now, basically I have found out she has now moved down to where I live (she hasn't actually said anything to me that she has though) and she's probably pretty busy, new house job etc.

I basically left things exactly as described in my previous post and there hasn't been any change apart from her liking a few things I've posted on Facebook and I've liked a few things she posted. So I've basically frozen her out for a couple of weeks!

So my question is do I contact her again or wait for her to contact me still? If I contact her, what can I say without sounding too needy and that will get a reply?

Basically all I want to happen is to meet up with her again as I'm pretty sure if I do things will just progress from there. If not I'm drawing a line under it and on to the next one!

Cheers Pr0d1Gy

"Hey, heard you've been holding out on me, but I might be convinced to forgive you. Let me know what night you're free, and I'll let you know what to wear."

She tells you when she's free, you make plans, don't tell her them. Just how she should dress.

There's no reason to not contact her. You can, and In fact, you should, but as Jack exemplifies... Do it with a Cocky and Funny Attitude, but try addaptin that attitude to your own personality.

She might have forgotten to let you know she was in town or maybe she didnt want you to know just yet.

Even if she gave you IOI's Kissed and stuff theres still a reason why she's hessitant to call you. You both kissed and her calling you might make her feel kinda slutty (buyers remorse).

I'd say, contact her, (sms is better) and just be funny, do not expect an invitation or an answer.

I'd contacther and take it from there, maybe she will explain herself without you asking.

Just do not be needy and do not ask for explanaitions ("why didnt you tell me you were here blah blah ")

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