What are the ways to tell if a girl likes you? What are the signs (or the IOI’s as some call it)? Sometimes, we get a little flustered talking to women and figuring out what the hell they are thinking. Well, let me just inform you – figuring out if a girl likes you is not rocket science. It’s easier to get a read on women than you might think. Here are the signs to look out for:

This is the #1 sign to tell if a girl likes you. About 9 out of 10 times, if a girl is consistently touching you, then you should take note. The key word here is consistently. If she touches you once, then that doesn’t mean much. But, if she keeps grabbing your arm, slapping your hand*, or poking you every five minutes you can be sure you have her attracted. Then there is that 1 out of 10 situation where the girl is normally “touchy-feely.” If that’s the case then read below for more signs to tell if a girl likes you.

This is also a key factor to tell if a girl likes you. Her body language will say it all! Body language is subconscious, so you know if she shows the following signs, then she’s truly attracted:

• She holds strong eye contact with you
• She plays with her hair (big sign, or a nervous tick)
• She giggles a lot at your jokes
• She has flushed cheeks
• She leans in closer to you or doesn’t mind being close

Look for all these body language signs to tell if a girl likes you. One more important sign to look for is when you are in deep conversation. She may have her head resting on her hand and will appear as if she’s staring deeply at you. It’s similar to that googley-eyed schoolgirl stare that you’ve seen on television. Yes, it happens.

Another huge sign to tell if a girl likes you is if she shows interest in you. This comes through when she asks you personal questions. This means she wants to get to know you! A girl won’t waste her time at the bar or out during the day talking to you if she doesn’t want to. But, her interest will be conveyed through questions that she wants answers to. What do you do? What do you like to do for fun? What’s your favorite restaurant? It’s questions like that which will prove to you that she’s interested in who you are as a person.

A lot of men can’t decipher subtle clues that prove that she wants to see you again. Pay attention! If this happens it’s a sure way to tell if a girl likes you. If you reach a deep comfort level and show her how awesome you are, then there’s a chance she’ll throw it all on the table. Statements like “we should totally do that some time!” after you mention a fun activity or similarly, “I’ve never done that before, but always wanted too!” This is her way of getting you to ask her on a date.

If a girl is trying to get in touch with you (and you didn’t meet her at a business/networking event) then you can be sure she is into you. Her making an effort to contact you is a solid way to tell if a girl likes you. It doesn’t get any easier than that fellas. She is the one making the move and all you have to do is go along with it. As a side note, make sure to still take the lead in your interactions, even if she contacts you first. Don’t wait for her to make the plans. Instead, take the contact as a hint and plan a date!

Memorize and learn all these ways to tell if a girl likes you. Getting to know these signs will help you figure out what’s going on in your exchanges. They are simple. All you have to do is make sure that you’re paying attention. When you get the hints, take action and make your move.

*I don’t mean she literally grabs your hand and slaps it (although she might). But if you two are sitting down together or leaning against a bar, she may react in conversation by lightly slapping your hand or arm. This is one of the easiest ways a girl can display her flirting and affection because it would be awkward to touch you in other places. This happens a lot when you have strong chemistry with a girl, so be on the look out.

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wtf guys.... 111 views and not a single thank you?? come on we are better than this



TrippAdvice thank you for sharing

You're a good man and you're very welcome. More posts to come!

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Thanks. I will look out for these when I go into the field.

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While I agree that those are consistent signs of attraction it is also very important to read the body language guidelines and take her idiosyncratic behaviors, into consideration. Some women just preen all the time.

Some nervous women are always giggling, sometimes it is attraction related.

"She may have her head resting on her hand and will appear as if she’s staring deeply at you. It’s similar to that googley-eyed schoolgirl stare that you’ve seen on television. "

These are bedroom eyes and are often due to arousal.

Even touch isn't always a sign of attraction. Italian people are known for being far more kinesthetic than Americans. Some people just naturally touch more it is a part of base lining their behaviors, does she touch you differently or in different areas. I certainly would agree to escalate regardless because it is almost always a sign of attraction but some women are just touchy and I've dealt with women like this as well where my escalation was unwanted. I've come across women who were on Ecstasy and were just touching everyone.

The key to reading body language is not forming one opinion about any one sign but about realizing the value the sign can have given the context of the situation and the person sending the sign. Most people never mention the body language guidelines but they are extremely necessary when judging attraction or any body language. No signal is set in stone.

A preen at a poker table is a sign of a bluff, in the attraction world it is a sign of insecurity sometimes and more often than not it is attraction related.

Preens are much simpler than a heavy hair preen they include any adjustment in appearance (however big) or bringing attention to her appearance (movement).

Again all of these signs I would assume the attraction and move on but it is important to realize how everything can change and even if she is preening she could be prepping for the guy she is texting or thinking about.

I put together a show on body language (Does She Like Me? -Reading attraction through body language) but I've since got lazy. I'm almost done with episode 8, just changed the format a bit.

Here is a link poeticlyskuacs-body-language-show-does- ... 37501.html to the thread. It is pretty detailed (starts with a syllabus body language guidelines then moves into courtship signals) but teaches to read attraction to being positive nearly every time.

I'm a big fan of body language... Good to see other body language buffs join the forum. Thank you for posting up such good info!

Peace and Love

Vic

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another good one I have spotted is if you are chatting in a bar, club, whatever, she goes off and comes back with upgraded/touched up makeup/hair.

That's pretty much a deal closer I have found.

Im completely new to this, these tips will help SO much. Thanks

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Thanks for your tips, really appreciated .

this post is brilliant, some excellent work there guys.
but how about adding other things to the list, such as asking you questions/ trying to keep a conversation going?

i think it would be a good idea to create as definite a list as possible on this, it would be a good resource for the community

Carl

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- Puts on lipstick
- In a set the foot or knee from the HB points to their target
- When their shoe is dangling half on their feet.

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What about IOIs on Internet conversations before meeting her

Anything she does that makes it seem like she's interested in getting to know you better.

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thanks for the tips. I noticed 2 of the hints tonight.

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Thankyou for the info

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Awesome post, you can't beat going back to basics once in a while to refresh - Thank you