tonight was a real eye opener in terms of realizing that what i know is what i need to do and how i dont do this up to standard.




First of all...... Engagement and showing interest.


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- girls i knew, not putting in effort or ignoring them in a to cool way ends up with them thinking im not keen and then going to someone else.


- even when the girl clearly wanted me i didnt make a move or try escalate or even connect with her, like even girls i knew who pointed at their friends, i was frozen on the spot instead of putting in some simple words and some solid escalation and vibe



- i was almost to afraid of rejection or almost to comfortable with them liking me and leaving it there.



- when i did start trying to connect and engage reactions changed completely so before i even consider gaming i need to learn to put my ego aside and game.


- random girls i didnt know i just put in some too cool stare and didnt even approach. what was i hoping to get out of that, like a stare is going to make them want me, even if they did want me they wouldnt make the move i have to do that.



- so fucking engage and actually try because this is the first step, be nice and give them a chance so that you can start developing properly... and approach.......





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which brings us on to the next point. approach


- basically not approaching girls that are want you even...

- like what you got to lose mayswell practice.


- nothing will ever happen if you dont try


- do fucking man up and approach swallow your pride and engage.




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escalation

- without physical escalation there is no sexual attraction so stop trying to do so with weird stares or thinking oh im to cool so i dont have to do shit or even talk to her to pull. so fucking engage and actually be friendly and fucking escalate while not breaking rapport (which when i did only fucked things up ie teasing wrong etc only fucked things up for me)... so fucking escalate physically have a seriously connective conversation stop trying to be cool and engage and dont say anything stupid while escalating properly...



no escalation makes the vibe lame and they walk away, i saw a friend tonight have the lamest convo but still had interest but just didnt escalate and failed.



also slower voice tone and clarity are vital.






main story tonight though is actually give iit a fucking go, engage show them some interest and give them a fighting chance, and then have some lame convo with proper confidence and proper escalation.


and fucking escalate even when things are awakrd with people you know



and open up asap even if its lame icebreaker convo think before going out





But main thing.... NOT ENGAGING PROPERLY AND ACTING TO COOL. FUCKING BE NORMAL AND CONNECT AND SHOW INTEREST YOUR NOT GETTING ANYWAY WITH YOUR NON INTERACTION GAME YOU IDIOT.

pussied out again tonight... 2 girls i knew wanted me but couldnt close

it all comes down to not engaging properly due to being scared of the possible rejection and leaving it there where i still know i have a good image in their minds.



So from this point, its time to change game plan. Its time to actually get to properly chise girls and stop fearing the rejection. Open yourself up and have fun with them and actually if they like you chise them properly back and be emotional and connective... So time to actually connect and put yourself on the line and stop giving a fuck about rejection... stop hiding yourself behind a barrier and man up and continue to approve but take more risks and properly ENGAGE, and also notice how easy physical escalation was tonight..


just got to engage have fun and escalate' time to change, m

the only fear is of fear itself


Literally it all comes down to confidence and not fearing rejection... like how i always freeze up when the girl likes me just man up and fucking dont care and just try your best to have fun and hookup with her because you have all the escalation etc skills needed just not delivering with confidence and fearing what could happen. Engage and escalate and persist with proper confidence (obtainable by just not giving a fuck!!!!) is all you need so do it, dont think is that other girl hotter just do it.

Starting to engage more and connect with people,,, like show more friendliness and interest in them.... and its working very well.

Problem is, i have a little bit of a fear of rejection to people i engage in. almost as though im afraid of what they might think if i show interest and dont always act more disinterested in them.

So as always the rule is engage more,,, but with a slight change.

The problem is also that fear of getting rejected for showing engagement.

The only way to get rid of it is to man the fuck up and stop caring about it, love being rejected for engaging or being embarassed about things going wrong. all this is going to do is make you main and toughen you up and take the head first and fastest path to success. So stop worrying about what to say and worry about the image you are portraying.


1. Nervous: You are doubting youself, you know she likes you but you are to scared to try because her liking you is making you comfortable , but what happenes, by that possible doubt that she isnt keen, what happens if rejection occurs, then im going to be going down.... soloution is fuck going down who cares, love rejection all you care about is going upstream, and taking all the hits, knowing you may be getting rejected but knowing you have this all covered once having no fear, so you battle that fear, and you take it up by rather working on opportunities leading to more expereiences and interactions providing you with more confidence and more intuition in field. You also have no regrets and know your doing the best you can and its onlya fast highway upwards from here.


Think rather, well she probasbly likes me, thats good enough, so rapidly escalate on her dont care about conversation display a killer insticnt in regards with escalation and closing and also connect with her and display confidence. her liking you only makes it easier....




Make a move, man up, Engage.


Seriously this is all i need to do.


End of discussion man up and get the girls you want, stop fearing that rejection and escalate and stop caring about convo. If you think she wants you she does. shutup, listen more, play it cool, and at the same time escalate fast with closing in mind in a fun non rapport breaking interaction. and close asap. dont fuck around and leave it for later like with k tonight... and stop making shit excuses up for not trying... its fear of rejection say fuck it lets do it,engage act chilled and escalate like never before...

Stop seeing people you know, C and not engaging because your trying to seem cool, or impress them or be above them. fucking connect with interest and confidence and actually make deeper connections and relationships. stop shallow impressing conversations and actually connect and invest and build compliance with a confident laid back but fun attitude but with everyone, and then just esclate with out fear and you have itl. treat everyone the same with a confident i dont care attidude in a very connenting, enagaged and positive way, then you will have this fun and good connection like T, B, T etc, only difference is you need to escalate with the ones you want. note how T, B T its east and also M CPt because of the actualy engagement you put in and stopped caring and now you have total control just fear of escalation, but do the same with others but just put a more deep and physcial sexual frame on it! like aim to just make friends but throw solid escalation and sexually charged energy into it to! but still being frriends nothing to lose who cares about physical rejection to! make friends its easy and escalate without fear when you want them, its that easy.... make friends, escalate without fear and solid confidence. you have it now>>>>

simply whenever you meet a girl think easy friend, but escalate with her, and concider maybe closing her, but esclate her as a friend properly and let her build the deep GS attraaction, even if over 5 min, and just finish. so treat all new ones as friends to, just escalate and dont care


big warning, dont get to attatched connection will do this, M and M

Focusing on 3 things tonight


1. Engagement in the girl, proper interest and focus on her.

2. Dont get that does she care what im saying feeling, rather deliver with a powerful presence and charisma even if conversation is kind of lame

3. Rapidly escalate with a closing killer instinct in mind, make it quick because girls will eject if they feel the conversation is going no where sexually


--- Lastly build up momentum from the get go

Back in the game. Forgot how fun it is to game girls when on form and when everything goes your way.


**Most importantly, escalation and closing.

- Escalation creates the attraction. It brings that extra spark to the chemistry. Physical contact and a much more flirty escalated vibe is what makes her want to close you.

- Have to stop doubting self and caring about her knowing that you want her. That is good, take a risk. If you are afraid of her knowing you want her by escalating or even by closing, and maybe rejecting you, harden the fuck up. Playing it safe until she may want to is stupid because escalation is what creates the attraction. Before you escalate she probably hasn't even thought of kissing you. So fucking let her know you want her, and realize its not a big deal if she knows it actually good. Dont look for good signs first just escalate and create the attraction.

- If you dont escalate you wont have that extra spark and she will probably leave soon because she will lose interest. Realize she will not want you until after you escalate.


Your problem is not realizing that escalation is essential and is the actual attraction, and being afraid to escalate because of fear of rejection is fucking retarded you are just losing out. If she rejects you laugh and move on, its fun. I always procrastinate when gaming a girl, wondering if i should or not, make excuses to not escalate, and get afraid to escalate. This is game and this is what you are fucking up recently. Escalate without fear, and realize escalation is what will create the attraction it is so fucking important she will not even know you before you escalate properly, when you arent escalating you arent even gaming, they dont give a fuvk about you. Escalate because if you arent then you may as well go home because you arent gaming. Rejection is no big deal, get confident and escalate physically and vibe wise.






******* (General mindset you must have, one of positivity)
Have fun, create momentum, make the best out of your night. Be a centre of good vibes, easy going flow, relatively chilled out and making the best out of everything. When chilling you are happy and laughing, when partying you are dancing and having a great time. This energy will put you in state and attract girls.





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Sweet talk the girl, bullshit her, tell her what she wants to hear, work together. dont break rapport and have lots of games and physical contact. Keep it smooth and connective.



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Bring presence and float, and keep voice tonality sharp and attractive, but realize you just need to keep it simple and that talking isnt that important.






So 3 points to remember (With a positive, fun, and easy going vibe)

- Float and bring presence, and keep the vibe simple and straightforward ie clear voice, nothing stupid being said, no awkward moments etc realize you dont have to do anything special besides having fun with her and escalating just keep up a simple and solid delivery.

- Have the best time together: have your arm around her, make her your girl, bullshit and sweet talk her, have fun together

- Escalate because it creates attraction, dont doubt or pussy out, or worry if she might know you want her, realize if you dont escalate and close nothing will happen because escalation is everything.




So basically your keeping yourself simple and solid, your having fun and gaming her, and there is lots of physical contact, escalation and closing with confidence. Its all you need.