So I've been seeing this chick for the past 2 months, been going out for 3 weeks now.

She has low self esteem about her body image. Shes a HB8 cute 19 yo ass to munch on for hours on end and cup size D in the front! I tell her she looks great and I constantly have to reminder her I love her.

We got together when my parents left for vacation for a week and half and as soon as mine got back, hers left for a week. We have been alone, without parents for a solid 2 weeks. Had sex for the first time on the second day and again like 3 days later. 2 weeks are up and I feel sooooo cheated on what should of been soooo fulfilling.

WHERE IS THE SEX?!?!


When we had sex the first time, word for word "Sorry, I'm all wet and super tight" I was like baby, it feels so good ... "I know but I get to self conscious about it."

So ya, two weeks are up. I'm so disappointed ;( If we watch a movie, shes gets to nervous if I started rubbing her because she gets wet, gets all upset if I start kissing her neck because .. yep, gets her to excited.

She only gets sexually turned on in the dark (Which honestly irks me.. I'm very visual). The only foreplay we have done is kissing. Dosent jerk me, dosent blow, dosent let me go down on her. Ok , shes shy about it. Fine. But she had no problem for me going straight for gold. Which I found a lil weird.

It was a kiss here, a kiss there .. "honey put the condom on" ummm what? sure.. not like I'm gonna say no, right?

So we fucked twice, it went dandy. She was panting , moaning ... you get the picture. I know it wasn't bad.

We should be fucking like craazy!! But after we have done it though, she would be mad naughty/horny via texts and send pictures of panties and combinations of lingerie. She has so much lingerie that she wont model for cause shes to shy. I almost feel like crying. So I know she knows how to be sexy and she CAN be comfortable with it.

Time is most likely the best remedy but if anyone can help speed this up a little, please, for some reason, its killing me. I just want that spark where every second alone should be another excuse to pleasure each other!


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Side notes*

Shes matures. Has had many BF before me. Has already lived in her own apt. with an ex. Not new sex in any way, shape or form.

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I learned working with the negatives could make for better pictures.

Tony king has a point, generally that's the type of girl's that can't be saved. She wants you to constantly boost her esteem. If you are constantly uping her it becomes a downer on you. It's generally not worth it.

I don't think it would be best to offer any opinion with where to go if you want to keep her. I'm still an AFC trying to flip it

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speed what up? she already slept with you, just enjoy it and continue as you please

Speed up was not the best term to use but how is this for thought...

A Girlfriend = Best Friend + Intimacy.

Take away the Intimacy and she becomes just a Best Friend. Wheres my Girlfriend???

We don't even make out!

* TO TONY KING * UPDATE *

The other day, she said something that caught my attention and only until today I think I put it together.

She said something along the lines of "I think you take me for granted". Of course I had to convince her otherwise. What I think she is really saying is more like "I think you sexually take me for granted". This seems to make more sense now...

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Easy to dream a dream, but much harder to live it.
I learned working with the negatives could make for better pictures.

I'm with Tony now, just let it go. Not worth stressing over. just be friends

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To get things done, you must love the doing not the secondary consequences. Your own action, not any possible object of your charity.

Perhaps this type of chick need you a boost of her confidence.

And you can give her that type of confidence.

First you need to be more intimate... build more trust, be patience with her.

And turn her sexy mode on.

I found a girl who was really hard didnt do much. But when I won her... she was the best sex I ever have, she only wanted to satisfy me.

If you dont have the patience or you dont see her as a future girlfriend dump her now, because this type of girl can be a pain in the ass...

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

This post should be bookmarked and filed under "why fucking a virgin is way overrated'.

Sorry bro. Next time, find a more experienced girl.