Hi, I heard this a few times that when guys are too available it kills attraction because girls like to hunt for non available guys.

Is it true and if yes how can I become less available for the girls?

Thanks for your help!

Hi there,
It is a hard topic. I think seeing a woman frequently isn’t an attraction killer providing you play it right. Seeing a woman frequently once you have got her in the attract phase is perfectly acceptable. I’ve just met a girl who I see 3-4 times a week at present. At first I thought this may be a problem but it seems to be going ok and still seems very interested. (Last night was date The trick is to play the game when you’re together (I run a routine on her during date 7). I still tease her and take the piss even pull away when she goes in for the kiss things like that saying ' Do you think you can kiss me any time you want '?). As shit as some of them sound they do work. The things that put women off are things like being too clingy etc, if you send her 2 texts and she hasn’t replied don’t send a 3rd, just wait for her to text you back, she usually will. The moral is keep her on her toes and don’t be needy, good things will happen.

Be well

Hendo

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Hendo

Absense makes the mind grow fonder. If she's constantly asking to see you, tell her you're busy. Show her you have a life, don't always be there when she wants you. Thus, increasing attraction....

the underlying dynamic is that girls want high status mails that display higher status behavior. A male that's overly available to them is showing lower value than them by definition. That's why, unless the girl is an emotional codependent, its bad game and an unattractive behavior.

when you see her, by #1. interesting, asking her questions , etc. when you see her all the time, you run out of questions to ask and unless you can be super interesting all the time, it'll be more difficult. yes absence makes the heart grow fonder. make her love being around you, and dont be around her.