Ok, first things first. This is my friend's sister which could make things slightly more complicated. It's not a good friend, just someone I'll see every once in a blue moon and I'm friendly with. I don't want to do wrong with friends but it seems as if pretty much everybody has told me this is cool. Let me know if you think otherwise.

So on Thursday, I see my friend and his sister (who I've never met before this) while out at the most popular bar in our area. She's a cute HB7 who's my type, so naturally I try to see if I can build any attraction. It doesn't take long to see that there might be something there. Our interactions are much more playful and flirty than any of her other interactions.

I ask if anyone wants do dance and she basically jumps at the opportunity. I escalate on the dance floor until it seems like a k close is inevitable. She then asks me for gum, so I 100% know it's there. Problem is it never happens since she's so paranoid that her brother will show up out of nowhere and see. So I get her number and say we should definitely do this again.

We had a short playful interaction when she got home and saw the text I sent her right when I got the number.

On Saturday, I extended a casual invite for her to join my friends out.
She seemed fairly interested but came up a "oh it's raining too hard" excuse...(It was absolutely pouring in my area on Saturday)

Basically I'm asking if hitting her up to see if she wants to do something tomorrow or Wednesday seems too pushy at this point. I don't want to seem overexcited to do something with her and turn her off but not being able to kiss close on an otherwise good night kinda messed with me.

How would you guys go about proceeding? Thanks for the help and I'm sorry this ended up so long haha.

Keep the 3/2 ratio (in regards to texts) and send her something along the lines of "Hey dork! Thought of you randomly today, had fun last time we hung out, let's grab a drink/coffee (sub anything here), and maybe I'll teach you how to dance after (that way you aren't stepping on my toes next time) ;p"

Two slight negs, "demanding" a get together, and DHVing, by stating the she "randomly crossed your mind" - in that you aren't constantly thinking of her so it was a "random" event. Works for me everytime. Good luck, and don't get killed by your friend.

Cheers, Confidence.

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Thank you sir. I will probably send out something along those lines tomorrow. I have tried to keep any kind of real conversation over text to a minimum in the early going. I always seem to overdo it and end up having her lose the attraction.

Therefore I'm trying to use text only as a form of setting up a meeting for the foreseeable future.

Your text worked out very well. Her response was definitely positive but she's at the beach for a few days so it's going to have to wait. Thanks buddy.