Right big update, not been on here for a long time.

So got my first lay in a long time, I am not going to go into details as it was more of a right place right time kind of thing than any real skill, although I do know the women.

Other than that I got a couple of numbers on subsequent nights out and have arranged dates since. I very nievely thought that was the hard bit over but how wrong I was. Getting the numbers, once the girl was opened, was not too difficult I didn't do anything special just can I have your number we should do something sometime. Throughout talking to them I was very cocky, borderline delusional, and made them laugh, however again didn't really stray from mainstream topics or run any kind of routine or games.

Since getting the numbers I have text both of them a fair bit and we have met up. However I have struggled in making any kind of kino or real flirting. Conversation tends to stick to fairly mundane topics. Although when I have met both girls I have genuinely had a good time and both of us have been laughing.

What I need to do from here is:

Raise my text game to be more flirty direct
Initiate some kind of physical contact on the next dates
Get back into cocky funny mode like how I opened them (this has dwindled the more contact I have had with either girl).

Positives, I find it unlikely that they would meet up with a guy they had no interest in and big confidence boaster and a good way to learn.

Still a lot to learn though.

Any comments or recommended reading will be appreciated.

Nice work AFCr
It seems like you are doing well! as for Initiating some kino on your dates I would play games like Thumb wrestling, Patty Cake, Trust Test ect. These types of things are quick/fun and give you something to comment on. also if you run out of things to say try The Cube, The Strawberry Game, The Girlfriend test ect.

I would only use Text to set up a meet, anything else can get lost in translation be very careful

Hope this Helps
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