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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 12:05 am 
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hey all,
well i guess there are many guys like me that have this problem.
in my situation right now i feel that at a party for example i can go to almost every girl and start talk but my main problem that even if i have a conversation subject i get stuck after we finish talk about it..
i know the answer to my problem is 'be creative' or something like that and i dont ask here for prepared subjects to talk about just a guideline of how to "find" those subjects..

thanks ;)


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 1:33 am 
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Idea: start reading stuff.

Be it news, palmistry, magic... slowly you'll expand your mind and talking to girls will go more and more natural.

Just keep on reading and learning new stuff.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:52 am 
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Ask tons of questions.

Every single person loves talking about themselves. People who study pick up focus way too much on talking, and not enough of effective listening in my opinion. Ask questions, take a genuine interest, and eventually she'll say something that you can easily add onto.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:57 am 
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Ask tons of questions.

Every single person loves talking about themselves. People who study pick up focus way too much on talking, and not enough of effective listening in my opinion. Ask questions, take a genuine interest, and eventually she'll say something that you can easily add onto.
Well not too many questions you have to share information or it could just seem to the chick that you're just rattling them off and not sharing enough info.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:01 am 
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Ask tons of questions.

Every single person loves talking about themselves. People who study pick up focus way too much on talking, and not enough of effective listening in my opinion. Ask questions, take a genuine interest, and eventually she'll say something that you can easily add onto.
Well not too many questions you have to share information or it could just seem to the chick that you're just rattling them off and not sharing enough info.
Why?

If she asks you questions back, then obviously answer. But I don't think you should intervene if she is willingly splurging out her life story.

From my experience, girls generally do not give a shit about the guy's stories during the first meetup. They respect confidence, mystery and swagger (all of which can be transmuted without much dialogue)

What do you think?


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:12 am 
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Ask tons of questions.

Every single person loves talking about themselves. People who study pick up focus way too much on talking, and not enough of effective listening in my opinion. Ask questions, take a genuine interest, and eventually she'll say something that you can easily add onto.
Well not too many questions you have to share information or it could just seem to the chick that you're just rattling them off and not sharing enough info.
Why?

If she asks you questions back, then obviously answer. But I don't think you should intervene if she is willingly splurging out her life story.

From my experience, girls generally do not give a shit about the guy's stories during the first meetup. They respect confidence, mystery and swagger (all of which can be transmuted without much dialogue)

What do you think?
Well I agree with you completely when you put it that way from what I took from your first comment was that you just rattled off question after question haha I have found that at least with the HBs I talk with that asking questions and elaborating as much as you can while looking for links can work like a freaking charm haha

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:55 pm 
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Thanks for the tips guys :-)
It's just I have no idea what question I should ask (the type of them at least)..I guess it have something to do with the fact i dont have 100% confident in myself..


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