According to the good Style 30 Day Challenge I need to develop some new openers. Honestly, I needed to do this anyways. So here is one that I thought of on the way to work. Let me know what you think. I will field test it this weekend.

"You girls look like you might be able to help...but I can only stay a second...What do you guys think is more important Foreplay or Sex?"

If you need to explain yourself: "Well women are always saying how a man good at ForePlay can make up for bad Sex or vice versa. Just wondered which one women found more important."

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Not bad! You can even push it more by adding: "I know that is different from person to person so lets take you for example, what is more important for you?"

Of course, for doing this, you have to have great confidence and big smile on your face!

One great trick in addition: Girls LOVE Foreplay so don`t forget to mention how you love long foreplays because whenever you do that, girls totaly explode when you finaly come to the Sex part and how they simply can`t let you go after that. She won`t be sure are you joking or you are serious but she will start to imagine all the things you are capable this will lead to F close very fast.

But I jumped way forward, you were only asking about the opener!

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Just to warn you, that is a VERY forward opener. Unless you deliver it perfectly (slightly grinning or sarcastically) you are going to weird-out the set. People just aren't used to strangers walking up to them and initiating a conversation about the graphic parts of sex for no apparent reason.

But if you really, truly want to use this, add, "My girlfriend's/buddies/whomever were having a debate about this," so that at least you give some context to such a forward question.

I think this could definately work. Women's magazine's are full of sex and foreplay talk so there is bound to be some females who will gladly answer that opener. All females want sex so they shouldn't be afraid to talk about it!

Like Esperanto says though it would probably work best if you had a group of people with you and would be even better if there was some females in the group as well then you could say "My female friend over there is sleeping with this guy and he isn't very good at sex but gives amazing foreplay and she thinks that's not a bad thing blah blah blah........"

Glad to hear you are thinking up new openers as well, it's always good to get new material! Yous hould field test this one and see how you get on.

I agree with you guys to change it to, "My friends I'm with where having this debate....or My friends and I were out the other night and we're haing this bebate...what is more important foreplay or sex?" I think it'll deliver better.

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The way I would personally handle this one is to be direct at first, because I am a direct person. If her body language showed she couldn't handle that, I would add in the friend or debate part.

Most girls wouldn't expect a guy to be so forward these days, unless you have balls, which most guys don't. Also, with some guys, such as myself, I normally have a sexual frame anyway, when not dealing with business. It comes across naturally, and most girls (obviously there are exceptions) don't have a problem with it because they realize that I'm comfortable talking about sex, and girls love a guy that's comfortable talking about sex.