Hey guys, I'm very new to this, so please tell me something:

I really like all the pickup lines I've read so far and I'm certainly gonna try some of them. but what's your attitude to a long lasting relationship?

Are you playing the game because you like it so much or do you use it as a way to find the 'woman of your dreams'?

I haven't yet found my perfect attitude to the game which prevents me from playing it easily.

Chris

Well, im basically looking at it like this: the more women i get to know, the higher the chance that i find a girl i could have a longterm relationship with. My last LTR lasted two years, and in retrospect it was horrible. Sure I loved the girl, but I didnt feel comfortable being myself, i felt that i had to constantly alter my personality in order to keep her. Now, i know i didnt actually HAVE to be "boyfriend version of myself", but the mere fact that i felt i had to, was an indicator that something was amiss.

So now Im basically trying to have fun, be young, meet interesting people, and if one of those people really catches my attention to the point where id like a LTR, I can choose to do so, as opposed to being the victim of circumstance and the girls mercy, like i felt my previous LTRs were.

If that makes any sense..

Thanks, this is the help I was hoping for.

Wow.. thats great, i hope youll stay on the forums and tell us how it goes =) .