Nice. Do you want to fuck her while she has a boyfriend? If so, ramp up the sexual talk a little. Show boldness, since she also seems quite comfortable with talking about that stuff.

I don't think I do, because our social circles are mixing together quite nicely at the moment, if I fucked her I could blow myself out of the social circle completely and that's something I really don't want to do! I'm keeping things fun and flirty, gradually escalating but then pulling back again

I take back my last comment. This girl is the only girl for a while thats been able to hold my attention, shes been slagging off her boyfriend further so I went straight into a boyfriend destroyer routine by bigging him up, making him seem like the perfect guy etc.. she brought him back down herself, perfect. I know I said I wasn't going to run a boyfriend destroyer routine, but to be honest the guy is a total dick anyway.

We now have constant flirting going on, she said she wants to tell me something tomorrow "on my own" so shes already trying to isolate ME from our group of friends, she just sent this text to me

"I will tell you tomorrow but it has to be on your own cause thinking about it, it's quite strange and might freak you out a bit, at least you're going away for a week so it wont be so bad when I speak to you next"

Now, judging by the recent flirting I'm guessing it's going to be that she likes me, wants me, blah blah blah something along those lines, since we'll be isolated I'll kiss close her. I have to be careful though, if she goes onto regret kissing me because of the boyfriend, I'm as good as out.

Superb thread. Good luck today (Monday). Get that kiss close in before you go away for a week and have her miss you like crazy over that week. By the time you get back her boyfriend may well be history allowing you to come in and sweep her off her feet. You've got solid game - Don't bollocks it up now!

Be a duck on the water... on the surface - you're calm as can be. Don't let her know anything other than how calm/confident and energetic you are...

Also don't allow her to discuss regrets... Use that to re-drect in a playful manner. "I am quite selective with whom I kiss. Allowing you to kiss me was obviously a highlight in your life. Be honest!"

If you know you're out - take the high road. "I wasn't thinking about him....to be honest, I feel sorry for him. I'm man enough to ensure my lady doesn't feel the need to kiss another man. I don't regret it - I'm glad it happened."

But the vibe I get from reading is that she's into you... Best, keep us posted.


RR

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Thanks guys!

Well, I isolated her, went for the kiss close and she turned away! So, rejection, shes definitely into me but I think cheating on her boyfriend was just too much for her, still, I'm not blown out so everythings good, she was giving me hugs and IOIs after the failed kiss close at least! Made sure nothing was awkward between us before I headed off home.

everyone else says the girl is into you. after the failed k-close, I quote myself:
good luck

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I went on holiday thinking that you were probably right!

Then, I came back. We went out last night and after the party went to a nearby park and hung out, I did a cold reading routine which actually made her cry, I may have gone too negative with it but it ended up us having a real meaningful talk and cuddling up to keep warm for 2 hours, I didn't go for the kiss close but did get quite a few "Eskimo kisses" out of it, she admitted that she liked me but things are complicated with her boyfriend.

Not sure where to proceed from here on in!

wat did c told u c wanted too tell you alone

You're slowly sliding off your main track and settling into a "nice, warm, comfortable" setting with her. And that's all well and good, but unfortunately it will not take you anywhere.

Do you know how men entice a committed woman?

They act different than what she's used to. Intense. Unpredictable. The whole nine.

Don't get it wrong, this is actually what she prefers. To keep you limited to 'eskimo kisses' and therefore, in a territory where she can deal with your advances (if they can be called as such).

If you have to really make a splash here, you have to go "All or Nothing". Either play towards victory (extremely favourable outcome) or do not play at all. There is no point in being a "cute, nice guy" in her eyes. She should desire and want you, and those emotions usually run deeper than the adjectives that you've associated your entire interactions with.

Take a chance. And clarify exactly to her that you won't be satisfied with the middle ground. Don't stop until you get all of her.

Good luck.

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Thanks for the reply! I was still drunk when I posted last night so I didn't write everything down! There was a huge amount of sexual tension, long held eye contact, glancing of the lips, she even said "I want to fuck you" the cute stuff just seemed to be there as well, I really shouldn't drink when gaming!

Haha! Shes been arguing with her boyfriend about me quite a lot, he doesn't like how much shes texting me, hes getting jealous and insecure, he may as well gift wrap her and deliever her straight into bed with me.

I cold read her again the other day and got her to really open up, shes not happy with him anymore and considering breaking up with him etc.. I pretty much have her, she texts me first most days and if I stop replying she'll reply again with something like "Oit stop ignoring me " or whatever. Job done.

Going to have to be really careful how I play this now, I don't want her to think I'm all up for a girlfriend and stuff, though I've mentioned it several times in casual conversation so it should be fine.