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artfulroger
PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 11:32 am 
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My mate has been seeing this girl for bout 3/4 weeks. They've slept together and had a few meet ups, probably about once a week. Anyway today she sent him this text:
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Hi, sorry to be confusing. Truth is I'm seeing somebody else at the moment and it's all getting a bit complicated. I'd like to see you but I don't want to lead you on. Hope you know what I mean. I had to be honest. Hope you don't think I'm a prick... x
Any opinions about pursuing this? I would say he still wants to see her, he's not forcing a relationship but he's open to it.

I'll try and give more info - if you need.
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Jason Stackhouse
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It seems everything clear, she want's to see him, but also wants to have sex with another guy.
So if he still wants to meet her:
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Ok, I'm not jealous about you bf
If not, it's even easier.
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Just play it like she didn't have another guy, "let's go to this place on saturday. Gonna be fun!"
If she declines, just don't reply. You're a cool guy who's always got other options besides her. Don't acknowledge him. You don't want to fuck him, so don't talk about him. He doesn't exist.
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Until it becomes exclusive, girls are always going to have options, you should have options as well. You think a pretty girl is not going to have other guys trying to get at her? Ex's, guys at work. I wouldn't pay the other guy any mind, but when the girl is with me you bet your ass I am going to show her a good time and show that I am still fun and the guy she needs to be with. Eventually someone will fuck up with this girl, whether it be you or the other guy and whoever fucks up she wil choose the guy that demonstrated composure.

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Give her some respect. Most girls i know would keep it secret.

Reward the girl, behaviour like this is awesome just a "that's cool, respect for telling me. Threesome sometime ;P"
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Yeah he basically text her, thanking her for her honesty and offered some plans to meet up - which she expected.

Thanks fellas.
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you're welcome
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