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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:10 am 
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Hey guys,
well i have a common 'problem' among "us" the AFCs :wink:
(even though I started reading and learning I still consider myself AFC).

Anyway, there's this girl im attracted to..
a little background: we used to be friends long time ago (just friends) and we stopped talking suddenly no reason (2-3 years ago). we have seen each other at parties and the only communication was "hello"..
few weeks ago we went together (not because I invited here, i just didnt have how to get there) to a party (and met friends there) and i had fun in the car we talked (she talked) and everything went smooth..
the friendship was recreated and we went with a group of friends to a club and everything was fine..

I dont LOVE her or something just have a little crush..I wanna try things I learn on here (teasing,c&f etc) and to see what happens..do you have any tips\ideas\routines\anything else that can help?

thanks and sorry for the long post ;]


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 2:46 pm 
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the friendship was recreated and we went with a group of friends to a club and everything was fine..
Let's start here. Do you want her as a friend? (Bad!)

Do you just want to have sex with her? (good)

Do you want her as your girl friend? (fine)

If 2 or 3 is your goal then,

I would advise you google: escalation ladder by vin dicarlo! there is a PDF version.

STUDY IT, understand it!

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 3:43 pm 
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Ofcourse 2 or 3 is my goal ;) that's why im here..
if it was 1 i would better just delete my accuont in this forum.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 3:54 pm 
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Ofcourse 2 or 3 is my goal ;) that's why im here..
if it was 1 i would better just delete my accuont in this forum.
Absolutely! LOL

Your best bet is to Isolate, Sexual convo/innuendo then Kino, I think you know what to do from there!

Just do it when your sure you can follow through!

If you can't install a real or artificial time constraint!

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:21 pm 
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i dont have any experience and she's like 9\10 (everyone's hitting on her, i might take it to my advantage by showing her im not interested and teasing and stuff)

hope it'll work out :)


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 5:30 pm 
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she's like 9\10 (everyone's hitting on her,
That's good news...sort of! lol

There are always going to be guys out there who are better than you at picking up women, so deal with it. It’s up to you to get better.
Be a better man then them.

Don't bend to her every whim like they WILL!

Don't flood her with complements...they will.

Be direct and open, show your intentions clearly and early!

Always be direct and let the woman know your intentions the moment you meet her, it will cut through the fluff and kill off the time wasters.

From the very first minute of the interaction, you need to sexually escalate so she understands that you’re not there for a friendly chat.
If you do things right, she’ll get turned on with minutes.
I’m talking about things like:
Not breaking eye contact while talking to her.
Touching her arms, shoulders, stomach, legs, small of the back.....
Speaking slowly and sexy
Closing the proximity

Tease her in a humorous way!

Look up "negs" and Push/pull" on here.

Hope this helps Bro go get her!

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 6:47 pm 
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Thanks man :) have few weeks to read and learn things 'till she comes back..
btw what's push/pull?


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btw what's push/pull?
Basically One step forward Two steps back!

For example, when you call a girl for the first time, and you don’t ask her out, and you get off the phone first, you are practicing push-pull. She is receiving mixed messages: “He seems to like me, he seems to enjoy my company, but he didn’t ask me out. Why didn’t he ask me out?” Or when you invite a girl to a group activity: on one hand, you’re asking her out, but on the other it doesn’t feel like a date, so she doesn’t know where she stands.

Keeping her off guard, wondering WTF your up too?

Women are so used to men trying to get every ounce of affection they can that when you stop things, they’ll often have a powerful surge demanding more. You can use the control you have over her reactions more!

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2012 8:49 pm 
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btw what's push/pull?
Basically One step forward Two steps back!
LOL, it's exactly the opposite, just an oversight i suppose. :wink:

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 11, 2012 10:39 pm 
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BTW do you think i should contact her when she comes back or what?
on one hand i wanna talk and meet her but on the other hand i dont wanna be seen like im chasing her or something..


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