| You all should know by now Mystery's philosophy of A1,2,3 then a move, c1,2, repeated bounces until c3, another bounce then s1,2, and 3.
However I have found a way to greatly reduce the c1,2 stage. I'll detail you through a past and present situation.
Six months ago, I got a girl's interest online, chatted her up on the phone for a good 3 hours over a time of a week and a half, we met in person. I did a2, 3, a bounce, then roughly 40 minutes of comfort. After that she was in the backseat of my car, I'll leave the rest to your imagination.
What I have discovered is that if you meet a girl pre-planned there is no need for an in person a1 and not nearly as much comfort building since that was done over the phone. I suggest a little a1,2, and a tad bit of 3 phase over the phone.
Buyer's remorse as Mystery put it, did this happen to me? No.
Now with another girl I chatted her up online, got her number and have spoken with her. At first she wanted to hang out at a place, the waffle house to be exact, because she knew a lot of people there and it was her comfort zone. I jokingly said, so do you like to stay in your comfort area or by the eleventh date will we be working our way out of the parking lot, didn't think much of that at that time. Later that night I get an email saying she has decided to step out of her comfort zone and do something exciting because I somewhat inspired her to do it, in this case a park because, according to her, it's beautiful and a science center. We haven't met yet. Soon.
My point is that I have discovered the beginning of what is a new routine.
Get online, get the number. A1,2 for a good 20 minutes, keep the a2 up longer than the a1. For about an hour work on c1,2, staying playful with a2 negs and jokes. After that reward her with a slight a3, then back to comfort. You'll find a way I'm sure to confidently make her feel comfortable and assure her you are a fun time. That should cut an annoying hour or so of c1,2 in person, which means eliminating at least one date before c3, then s1,2,3.
This is a work in progress but I'm onto something very strong. The only question left, will she be the next girl to sleep with me? Stay tuned, stay sophisticated. _________________ Stay Sophisticated.
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