Hi Guys,

Theres's HB9 at my work who use to exchange glances and smiles with me which I am sure were IOI's

However she now won't even make eye contact or say hello anymore.

I have n't done anything other than been a bit lame and listened to the little voice in my head that convinced me she's would not be interested in me and therefore may have blown it with subconcious behaviour.

I consider myself to be an AFC at this stage of my recovery.........

What can I do to fix the situation?

PUA's please assist..

Thanks in advance

ok look, I am far from being a MPUA, but here's my advice:

1. Have ever heard of the 3 second rule? Basically, it is there to prevent you from overthinking before approaching and to not look like a creep who was looking at her. You got to approach right fucking now lol.

2. Workplace is a tough place to flirt. This will not help you much, but if you fail (I mean you fail big time), you will have to live with her close to you everytime you work. If you have a solid inner game this should not be a problem. This is why I would go with a situational opener. You two work together, I'm sure you can find something at your workplace to open her. Furthermore, you don't risk much when you approach like this, but you must know that low risk = small reward. Still, it is a good beginning. Of course is your confidence is sky high you should go direct haha.

I'm really happy that I discovered this forum. 6 months before I would never have approached a stranger at work before but you should see the ridiculous approaches I do now. Like nike says, "just do it".

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Thanks for the advice NorthBoy will try and implement advice.