Met this girl about a week ago, ended up kissing her but didnt get her number. Anyway I added her on facebook and sent her a message about 3 or 4 days after we met saying something like 'Was fun meeting you, had a good night. That couch was so bad too sleep on! I want to get to know you more, come out next saturday and ill think of something fun for us to do'.

Now I know she has seen the message but hasnt responded. She did say she doesnt really use facebook and hasnt posted anything since.

Should I send a follow up message? Im really not very used to facebook messaging and usually do it by text which is much much easier. What would be a good follow up message?

She knows Im not desperate and told me I look like an underwear model and asked why Im single so I need to keep that frame.

She has seen the message, the ball is in her court!

If she does not respond in like a week, re-open her with something like "Hey trouble how are you? What kind of hell have you been raising?" Then try to build a little more comfort before asking her out again.

Check out other options in the meantime!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Just out of interest,

What did you respond to the 'why are you single' question?

I jokingly said 'Im really fussy'.

I hate the question and nearly always say either 'Im really fussy' or 'I havent had a girl pass the first date test in a while'.

Always catches me off guard!