LMAO, my bad! ..anyway wait a few hours, then text back, "Congratulations, I didn't know you "played on the other team" But she's hot, I understand..lol" But don't keep the convo going!

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Haha will do.. she will try to keep the convo going. I'm telling you! Shall I just be cold?

Be friendly but not flirty. Be slightly distant like you're busy.

Okay I'll give it a go. Thanks

Exactly. And keep your answers short and act almost uninterested. Nothing get woman wonder what is going on more than lack of interest in talkin to them. If she brings this up, just say you were busy and not able to txt long answers or something like that.

I'm actually not needed in work tomorrow now, so I won't be seeing her until her holiday. So after she text me this morning I replied very coldy and just said "By the way, I'm not in work tomorrow now", she said "Why? aren't you in (insert day here)?" and I said "Nope, I'm busy. Have a good time anyway."

She just replied with a "Okay will do "

Was I cold enough?

I'm pretty sure she will text me again before she goes (next monday I believe).. because we usually text daily.. to suddenly stop that she must get curious?

It's just difficult for me y'know.. I've let it get too far with her. She is still on my mind a lot.. I'm always wondering what she's doing. And when she is with this guy tomorrow evening I'm going to be sitting here seething with jealousy and thinking the worst..

I also said "3 weeks of no seeing me.. are you going to be okay?"

She replied "Not really.. :/" I said "Why?" and got the reply "Because I'm going to really miss you :/"

Not really sure what to say to that..

Here is how to reply: "I Know "

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She got with someone else at a party last night.. It's a joke!!

It's shitty Bro, you got robbed! It will happen! Don't let it get you down...trust me there are lots more...even hotter! "NEXT" her and move forward! She doesn't exist to you now!

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It's just tough when you've let yourself get too into her.. I have to see her Sunday at work and I will probably just snap.. How can she be all over me like that, the next day give me the "LJBF talk" and then go getting with guys at parties? She's with another guy right now who most likely has his tongue down her throat. Fucking hate it! Just makes it more of a slap in the face. I know it's my fault I didn't go in, but it still doesn't help that she's off with other guys.

Next time she texts me I'm going to screw..

you have to give up on this girl. I dont have a lot of experience with girls, but i can tell you that it may hurt you a lot more than the other way around.

You HAVE to see other girls. Just to let your brain reorganize. You will see how this girl has nothing more than other girls. YOUR brain makes it up.

it will be very fucking hard, but trust me, its the best thing you have to do. Leave her alone and meet new girls.

Raging on her will not help anything, and will only give you temporary self-satisfaction. You must act indifferent towards it. Sure, it bothers you. We've all been there. But you can't show that, at least not to her. When she sees that you have moved on without a single shit given, she will wonder why and start to question things. When she sees you with other girls, she will turn self-conscience and wonder why you don't want her anymore.

Or, you can yell at her, and she will think you're crazy and need help. You will feel some relief for a short time, and then feel like shit again. If you act civil and calm now, you will look back a year from now and be glad you were an adult about the situation.

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Okay. I'll try. Thankfully she goes away for 2 weeks next week.. but I have to deal with her at work on Sunday.. how exactly can I go about it? She usually talks to me all the time.. I won't snap but I will struggle to act normal..

Should I hit on the other waitresses in front of her? Would that be too obvious trying to make her jealous?

Just do that!

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