so i met this hb8 at the club about a year ago and talk to her once in a while via text/facebook. recently (past 2 months or so) she has been randomly asking me to chill with her late at night. i met her up 3 times in total, the first time we went to get coffee at like 3 am and i ended up driving her to this dock with a beautiful view and after that she went home. the second time i just finished clubbing and went to get coffee with her again and this was pretty early in the morning like 5am, after coffee i invited her to my place to smoke up. she refused to smoke up cuz she said she was driving but came over anyways. in the end nothing happened and she left. the third and most recent time she asked me to chill so i brought her to a bubble tea place and we ended up going for a drive again and then she went home after. i have not attempted any kino on her and i am pretty confused as to what her motives are for asking me out. i have also been trying to chat with her via text but she just stops replying me after a while and that is just pissing off. there are probably more details i am not including but this is the gist of it.

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I don't f*ck fatties

God.. Where to start.. This women invites you out LATE AT NIGHT! I.O.I? You get her back to your place twice... You "havent attempted any kino" the fuck does that even mean? You should never have to "attempt" kino, there is no attempting it! You just do it! ALWAYS! In my opinion this chick WANTS YOUR DICK IN AND AROUND HER MOUTH (credit SuperBad). But you are fucking it far beyond I would have ever beleive ANYONE! could. She's ignoring your texts after giving you all these IOI's and you not picking up on any of them and making a move? No way! Weird... AFC.

Now that I've ranted/ripped your ego apart (mistakes were made, I shall not apologize, you needed that), to get yourself out of this situation you've wanked yourself into, search the forums for "going caveman" - demand (in an alpha way) another meet up, kino escalate like a BOSS! And go caveman, either that or PM me her number and I'll take care of her for you

Ps: Two hypothetical guesses, she just broke up with her bf, and you're a virgin?

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I don't f*ck fatties

i needed that, no she didnt just break up with her bf and no i am not a virgin but i do admit i am not very good with the ladies. i will check out this caveman thing. thanks for the wakeup call

MOTHER OF GOD HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


Yep.. AGREE 10000%

Do not hesitate to touch, kiss or be straight about your desire to fuck !! If you hesitate any more she WILL loose interest!

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".. I will learn all that I've forgotten, I will succeed where I'd previously failed, and even if I don't I wont stop, cuz this is not just about girls, this is about Life "

it´s actually pretty hard to get but so much easier too just go for it!

To summarise:

A girl puts you in, and engineers a position where you can fuck her and she has deniable plausability. (several times)

You do nothing when you are together by not escalating into kino (several times)

Now she's lost interest (because you didn't perform your manly duty)


There is a lesson to be learned in all this...

Look up micro escaltion. It's honestly the thing every guy needs to read. I don't speak a single IOI it's all done threw body laungauge. I used to have a problem going for the kiss, but i've learned there's like 20 kino steps before the kiss and you'll know if she's interested in a kiss by doing this. Check it out.

You talk to girls to touch them, you touch them to fuck them. It's that simple!

sounds interesting, thanks for the feedback guys.im going to be looking into micro-escalation now