Guys,

I'm probably over-thinking this, but just want to know what you think of this situation.

I was FB chatting with a girl I've never met, who I'm going to start giving English tuition to at the end of the summer. One of her friends (who I don't know either) commented on the messages exchanged between myself and the original girl. She then FB added me (the 'new' girl).

Since then, the first girl has gone away on holiday, but I've started FB chatting and texting with the 'new' girl. I feel like it's going really well, we've agreed to hang out after the summer etc (I'm not back in her country until the end of this month). But I'm just a bit concerned that there's already TOO MUCH contact with her, especially considering we've not even met in person yet!

Will too much texting and FB chat lead to a loss of attraction or whatever? I should point out that all the interactions have been great so far! It's totally two-way. She contacts me more than I do her, if anything! I think there are some definite IOIs there too. She asked me outright if I had a girlfriend, says we were destined to meet, etc.

Should I just keep messaging her if and when I feel like it? She seems cool, so I don't want to fuck it up!

Cheers fellas!

Well, just make sure you don't end up in the "text-friend box".. HB's normally gets text ed lots..
I didn't read anything about a # close..
However try # close her and call her instead of texting all the time..

Its more personal and you properly won't end up as a text friend..

Correct me if im wrong

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- Actionman

Thanks for the reply man.

Yeah, I know what you're saying about the "text friend" thing! I definitely don't want that!

I got her number easily during one of our FB chats. So we've been texting back and forth a fair bit. We're both in different countries at the moment, so I can't really call her!

I don't want to jump the gun, but it genuinely seems like she's into me. Time will tell I guess! I'm thinking I need to maybe start getting more sexual/suggestive in my texts, to avoid LJBF.

Thoughts?